Toys, Tricks and Tears: Having the Most Out of Your BDSM Play1976619
Regardless if you are merely on the fringes of the kinky bondage toys, or it permeates the fiber of your being understanding that of your partner/lover also, there is something for all. New experiences and apparatuses to elicit wonderful and varied responses in order to increase said experiences are simply around the corner. Elation, even tears (of want and desire rather than pain or anguish, since sex should 'never' cause genuine harm) certainly are a real chance with thoughtful, evocative sex play. Include us, and we'll explore this winding road leading on to the depths of this sweet intoxicating blending of passion and pain.
Blindfolds and Sensation Play
For some, blindfolds are the quintessential accessory for any D/s playtime. Sensory deprivation in conjunction with the sensory overload in the areas meshed with the complete and absolute trust must be willing to wear you make this a magnificent tool. Imagine, as it were, as the shade slips over your vision, turning your vision to blackness. You may move, more inclined though, you can't. Your hearing gets to be more acute while you pick up on every little sound. You may not know what your lover is doing until he or she does it. The skin tingles in anticipation at the first touch upon your flesh, whether it is with a knife, a hand, an ice cube, hot wax, a clothespin or whatever your imaginations can envision, you react instantly with a sharp intake of breath. Tactile sensations become poignant and so are the sole focus once you are unable to see.
Earplugs These link very, very nicely with blindfolds. For a true sensory deprivation experience, your alternatives are substantial. On one side, you can choose the cheap polyurethane foam earplugs found in most grocery or pharmacies. There are industrial variants which can be similar, and then there are the hoods that some sex shops sell. Intimidating yet finely crafted, these (usually leather, though other construction options are available) hoods provide both visual and auditory deprivation. Cutting ties to other senses besides sight serves and then heighten and prolong the experience.
Restraints From silk scarves to saran wrap to wrist/ankle cuffs or industrial strength bungee cord, when you want to immobilize your partner, there are numerous options, according to what you want to do and how comfortable your spouse is with that particular kink. Many ankle/wrist cuffs include metal D rings attached to which you can affix your binder of preference. Ultimately, the purpose of restraint is control. Direct your partner's sensations, which in turn lead to further enjoyment for both of you. From orgasm control to the most basic not enough simply being in a position to touch himself or herself or you, tying your lover up like an erotic Christmas gift could be a great deal of fun. As with any aspect of this type of fun, aspects key. You must be sure not to cut off blood circulation, and in the truth of saran wrap, our bodies loses its capability to breathe and release heat, so you've got to keep your partner cool. Whenever you remove it, the alternative will be true, so have a robe or blanket handy.
In addition to this modest listing of physical options (modest, since there are numerous options besides these which you can experiment with to discover what you like), there are scenarios and concepts, which can further heighten the pleasure and joy each party potentially experience. From conditioning - or honing your partner to get off by doing or wearing a specific thing (during public) to dirty talking, to roleplay, your choices are as boundless as your imagination. If you play it safe, and be sure your partner recognizes that you love him or her and will do right by them long after the welts and transient pains of want have faded, there is no end as to what you can do.
