Toys, Tricks and Tears: Having the Most Out of Your BDSM Play399319
Regardless if you are merely on the fringes from the best bondage, or it permeates the very fiber of your being and that of your partner/lover too, there is something for everyone. New experiences and apparatuses to elicit wonderful and varied responses to heighten said experiences are just around the corner. Elation, even tears (of want and need rather than pain or anguish, since sex should 'never' cause genuine harm) really are a real chance with thoughtful, evocative sex play. Include us, and we'll explore this winding road leading on to the depths of the sweet intoxicating blending of passion and pain.
Blindfolds and Sensation Play
For some, blindfolds are the quintessential addition for any D/s playtime. Sensory deprivation coupled with the sensory overload in other areas meshed with the complete and absolute trust needed to be willing to wear you make this a magnificent tool. Imagine, for a moment, as the shade slips over the eyes, turning your vision to blackness. You may move, much more likely though, you cannot. Your hearing gets to be more acute while you pick up on every little sound. You will not know what your companion is doing until he or she does it. Your skin tingles in anticipation and also at the first touch upon your flesh, whether it be with a knife, support, an ice cube, hot wax, a clothespin or whatever your imaginations can dream up, you react instantly with a sharp consumption of breath. Tactile sensations become poignant and are the sole focus once you are unable to see.
Earplugs These link very, very nicely with blindfolds. To get a true sensory deprivation experience, your choices are substantial. On the other hand, you can opt for the cheap foam earplugs seen in most grocery or drug stores. There are industrial variants which can be similar, and then there are the hoods that some sex shops sell. Intimidating yet finely crafted, these (usually leather, though other construction choices are available) hoods provide both visual and auditory deprivation. Cutting ties to other senses besides sight serves simply to heighten and prolong the experience.
Restraints From silk scarves to saran wrap to wrist/ankle cuffs or industrial strength bungee cord, when you want to immobilize your partner, there are numerous options, based on what you want to accomplish and how comfortable your partner is with that one kink. Many ankle/wrist cuffs have metal D rings attached to which you can affix your binder associated with preference. Ultimately, the goal of restraint is control. Direct your partner's sensations, which often lead to further enjoyment for of you. From orgasm control to the most basic lack of simply being able to touch herself or himself or you, tying your lover up as an erotic Christmas gift could be a great deal of fun. As with any aspect of this sort of fun, safety is key. You have to be sure never to cut off the circulation of blood, and in the situation of saran wrap, our bodies loses its capability to breathe and release heat, so you've got to keep your partner cool. When you remove it, the contrary will be true, so have a robe or blanket handy.
Furthermore modest set of physical options (modest, because there are numerous options besides these which you'll experiment with to find out what you like), you will find scenarios and ideas, which can further heighten the pleasure and joy each party potentially experience. From conditioning - or honing your partner to get off by doing or wearing a specific thing (during public) to dirty talking, to roleplay, your alternatives are as boundless as your imagination. Providing you play it safe, and make sure your partner recognizes that you love him or her and will do right by them long after the welts and transient pains of want have faded, there is no end as to what you can do.
