Toys, Tricks and Tears: Obtaining the Most Out of Your BDSM Play338900
If you are merely on the fringes with the best bondage, or it permeates ab muscles fiber of one's being and that of your partner/lover also, there is something for all. New experiences and apparatuses to elicit wonderful and varied responses to heighten said experiences are just around the corner. Elation, even tears (of want and need rather than pain or anguish, since sex should 'never' cause genuine harm) certainly are a real chance with thoughtful, evocative sex play. Have us, and we'll explore this winding road leading down into the depths of that sweet intoxicating blending of passion and pain.
Blindfolds and Sensation Play
For some, blindfolds are the quintessential accessory for any D/s playtime. Sensory deprivation coupled with the sensory overload in other areas meshed with the complete and absolute trust must be willing to wear one makes this a magnificent tool. Imagine, if you will, as the shade slips over your vision, turning your eyesight to blackness. You may move, more inclined though, you can't. Your hearing gets to be more acute when you pick up on every little sound. You may not know what your companion is doing until he or she does it. The skin tingles in anticipation and at the first touch upon your flesh, whether it is with a knife, help, an ice cube, hot wax, a clothespin or whatever your imaginations can envision, you react instantly using a sharp use of breath. Tactile sensations become poignant and are the sole focus once you are unable to see.
Earplugs These link very, very nicely with blindfolds. For a true sensory deprivation experience, your alternatives are substantial. On one side, you can opt for the cheap memory foam earplugs present in most grocery or drug stores. There are industrial variants which can be similar, and then there are the hoods that some sex shops sell. Intimidating yet finely crafted, these (usually leather, though other construction choices are available) hoods provide both visual and auditory deprivation. Cutting ties along with other senses besides sight serves simply to heighten and prolong the knowledge.
Restraints From silk scarves to saran wrap to wrist/ankle cuffs or industrial strength bungee cord, when you need to immobilize your spouse, there are numerous options, according to what you want to do and how comfortable your spouse is with that particular kink. Many ankle/wrist cuffs have metal D rings mounted on which you can affix your binder of choice. Ultimately, the objective of restraint is control. Direct your partner's sensations, which lead to further enjoyment for both of you. From orgasm control towards the most basic insufficient simply being in a position to touch themselves or you, tying your lover up such as an erotic Christmas gift can be a great deal of fun. As with every aspect of this sort of fun, safety factors are key. You must be sure never to cut off blood flow, and in the truth of saran wrap, the body loses its ability to breathe and release heat, so you've to keep your partner cool. Whenever you remove it, the opposite will be true, and so do a robe or blanket handy.
Additionally modest set of physical options (modest, since there are numerous options besides these that you can experiment with to learn what you like), you will find scenarios and concepts, which can further heighten the pleasure and joy each party potentially experience. From conditioning - or honing your lover to get off by doing or wearing a particular thing (during public) to dirty talking, to roleplay, your options are as boundless as your imagination. If you play it safe, and be sure your partner sees that you love them and will do right by him or her long after the welts and transient pains of want have faded, there isn't any end as to what you can do.
