Toys, Tricks and Tears: Having the Most Out of Your BDSM Play6538871
Whether you are merely on the fringes of the kinky bondage toys, or it permeates ab muscles fiber of one's being which of your partner/lover also, there is something for everybody. New experiences and apparatuses to elicit wonderful and varied responses in order to increase said experiences are just around the corner. Elation, even tears (of want and need rather than pain or anguish, since sex should 'never' cause genuine harm) are a real chance with thoughtful, evocative sex play. Include us, and we'll explore this winding road leading down into the depths of this sweet intoxicating blending of passion and pain.
Blindfolds and Sensation Play
For some, blindfolds are the quintessential accessory for any D/s playtime. Sensory deprivation coupled with the sensory overload in other locations meshed with the complete and absolute trust needed to be willing to wear one makes this a magnificent tool. Imagine, for a moment, as the shade slips over your eyes, turning your eyesight to blackness. You may move, more inclined though, you can not. Your hearing gets to be more acute as you pick up on every little sound. You will not know what your lover is doing until she or he does it. Your skin tingles in anticipation and also at the first touch upon your flesh, whether it is with a knife, help, an ice cube, hot wax, a clothespin or whatever your imaginations can envision, you react instantly using a sharp consumption of breath. Tactile sensations become poignant and so are the sole focus when you're unable to see.
Earplugs These link very, very nicely with blindfolds. For a true sensory deprivation experience, your alternatives are substantial. On the one hand, you can choose the cheap foam earplugs present in most grocery or drug stores. There are industrial variants which are similar, there are also the hoods that some sex shops sell. Intimidating yet finely crafted, these (usually leather, though other construction options are available) hoods provide both visual and auditory deprivation. Cutting ties along with other senses besides sight serves simply to heighten and prolong the experience.
Restraints From silk scarves to saran wrap to wrist/ankle cuffs or industrial strength bungee cord, when you wish to immobilize your lover, there are numerous options, depending on what you want to complete and how comfortable your spouse is with that one kink. Many ankle/wrist cuffs have metal D rings mounted on which you can affix your binder of choice. Ultimately, the objective of restraint is control. Direct your partner's sensations, which in turn lead to further enjoyment both for of you. From orgasm control for the most basic not enough simply being capable of touch himself or herself or you, tying your lover up such as an erotic Christmas gift could be a great deal of fun. Just like any aspect of this sort of fun, safety factors are key. You have to be sure never to cut off the circulation of blood, and in the situation of saran wrap, the body loses being able to breathe and release heat, so you've got to keep your partner cool. Whenever you remove it, the opposite will be true, and so do a robe or blanket handy.
In addition to this modest list of physical options (modest, as there are numerous options besides these that you can experiment with to find out what you like), you will find scenarios and concepts, which can further heighten the pleasure and joy both sides potentially experience. From conditioning - or honing your partner to get off by doing or wearing a particular thing (during public) to dirty talking, to roleplay, your choices are as boundless as your imagination. So long as you play it safe, and be sure your partner sees that you love her or him and will do right by her or him long after the welts and transient pains of want have faded, there's no end as to the you can do.
