Toys, Tricks and Tears: Getting the Most Out of Your BDSM Play6375941
If you are merely on the fringes with the bondage toys, or it permeates ab muscles fiber of the being and that of your partner/lover as well, there is something for all. New experiences and apparatuses to elicit wonderful and varied responses to heighten said experiences are just around the corner. Elation, even tears (of want and require rather than pain or anguish, since sex should 'never' cause genuine harm) are a real chance with thoughtful, evocative sex play. Include us, and we'll explore this winding road leading into the depths of the sweet intoxicating blending of passion and pain.
Blindfolds and Sensation Play
For some, blindfolds are the quintessential addition to any D/s playtime. Sensory deprivation along with the sensory overload in other areas meshed with the complete and absolute trust needed to be willing to wear you make this a magnificent tool. Imagine, if you will, as the shade slips over your eyes, turning how well you see to blackness. You could move, more inclined though, you can not. Your hearing gets to be more acute when you pick up on every little sound. You won't know what your spouse is doing until she or he does it. Your skin layer tingles in anticipation and at the first touch upon your flesh, whether it be with a knife, support, an ice cube, hot wax, a clothespin or whatever your imaginations can envision, you react instantly with a sharp consumption of breath. Tactile sensations become poignant and so are the sole focus once you are unable to see.
Earplugs These link very, very nicely with blindfolds. For a true sensory deprivation experience, your alternatives are substantial. On the one hand, you can opt for the cheap memory foam earplugs present in most grocery or pharmacy. There are industrial variants which can be similar, there are also the hoods that some sex shops sell. Intimidating yet finely crafted, these (usually leather, though other construction choices are available) hoods provide both visual and auditory deprivation. Cutting ties along with other senses besides sight serves and then heighten and prolong the ability.
Restraints From silk scarves to saran wrap to wrist/ankle cuffs or industrial strength bungee cord, when you wish to immobilize your lover, there are numerous options, according to what you want to do and how comfortable your lover is with that specific kink. Many ankle/wrist cuffs include metal D rings attached with which you can affix your binder of choice. Ultimately, the purpose of restraint is control. Direct your partner's sensations, which lead to further enjoyment for both of you. From orgasm control to the most basic lack of simply being in a position to touch himself or herself or you, tying your lover up such as an erotic Christmas gift can be quite a great deal of fun. Just like any aspect of this kind of fun, safety factors are key. You've got to be sure not to cut off blood circulation, and in the case of saran wrap, your body loses its capability to breathe and release heat, so you've to keep your partner cool. When you remove it, the alternative will be true, so have a robe or blanket handy.
Additionally modest list of physical options (modest, as there are numerous options besides these which you can experiment with to learn what you like), you will find scenarios and ideas, which can further heighten the pleasure and joy each party potentially experience. From conditioning - or honing your lover to get off by doing or wearing a particular thing (even in public) to dirty talking, to roleplay, your choices are as boundless since your imagination. So long as you play it safe, and be sure your partner knows that you love him or her and will do right by her or him long after the welts and transient pains of want have faded, there isn't any end as to what you can do.
