Toys, Tricks and Tears: Having the Most Out of Your BDSM Play2132474
Whether you are merely on the fringes of the bondage toys, or it permeates the very fiber of your being understanding that of your partner/lover also, there is something for everybody. New experiences and apparatuses to elicit wonderful and varied responses to heighten said experiences are just around the corner. Elation, even tears (of want and desire rather than pain or anguish, since sex should 'never' cause genuine harm) certainly are a real chance with thoughtful, evocative sex play. Have us, and we'll explore this winding road leading on to the depths of the sweet intoxicating blending of passion and pain.
Blindfolds and Sensation Play
For a few, blindfolds are the quintessential addition for any D/s playtime. Sensory deprivation coupled with the sensory overload in the areas meshed with the complete and absolute trust needed to be willing to wear one makes this a magnificent tool. Imagine, if you will, as the shade slips over your eyes, turning your eyesight to blackness. You may move, much more likely though, you can not. Your hearing gets to be more acute while you pick up on every little sound. You may not know what your spouse is doing until she or he does it. The skin tingles in anticipation and also at the first touch upon your flesh, whether it is with a knife, a hand, an ice cube, hot wax, a clothespin or whatever your imaginations can dream up, you react instantly with a sharp intake of breath. Tactile sensations become poignant and therefore are the sole focus once you are unable to see.
Earplugs These link very, very nicely with blindfolds. For any true sensory deprivation experience, your choices are substantial. On one side, you can opt for the cheap foam earplugs found in most grocery or drug stores. There are industrial variants which are similar, there are also the hoods that some sex shops sell. Intimidating yet finely crafted, these (usually leather, though other construction option is available) hoods provide both visual and auditory deprivation. Cutting ties with other senses besides sight serves and then heighten and prolong the experience.
Restraints From silk scarves to saran wrap to wrist/ankle cuffs or industrial strength bungee cord, when you need to immobilize your partner, there are numerous options, based on what you want to do and how comfortable your partner is with that specific kink. Many ankle/wrist cuffs have metal D rings mounted on which you can affix your binder of choice. Ultimately, the purpose of restraint is control. Direct your partner's sensations, which lead to further enjoyment for of you. From orgasm control towards the most basic lack of simply being able to touch herself or himself or you, tying your lover up such as an erotic Christmas gift can be a great deal of fun. Just like any aspect of this sort of fun, aspects key. You have to be sure never to cut off blood flow, and in the case of saran wrap, the body loses its capability to breathe and release heat, so you've got to keep your partner cool. Once you remove it, the opposite will be true, so have a robe or blanket handy.
Additionally modest listing of physical options (modest, as there are numerous options besides these which you'll experiment with to discover what you like), you can find scenarios and concepts, which can further heighten the pleasure and joy both sides potentially experience. From conditioning - or honing your lover to get off by doing or wearing a specific thing (even in public) to dirty talking, to roleplay, your options are as boundless since your imagination. Providing you play it safe, and make sure your partner knows that you love them and will do right by them long after the welts and transient pains of want have faded, there isn't any end to what you can do.
