Toys, Tricks and Tears: Getting the Most Out of Your BDSM Play2895842
Regardless if you are merely on the fringes with the bondage gear, or it permeates ab muscles fiber of one's being and that of your partner/lover too, there is something for all. New experiences and apparatuses to elicit wonderful and varied responses to heighten said experiences are only around the corner. Elation, even tears (of want and desire rather than pain or anguish, since sex should 'never' cause genuine harm) really are a real chance with thoughtful, evocative sex play. Have us, and we'll explore this winding road leading down into the depths of this sweet intoxicating blending of passion and pain.
Blindfolds and Sensation Play
For many, blindfolds are the quintessential addition for any D/s playtime. Sensory deprivation in conjunction with the sensory overload in other areas meshed with the complete and absolute trust must be willing to wear you make this a magnificent tool. Imagine, for a moment, as the shade slips over your eyes, turning your eyesight to blackness. You may move, more inclined though, you cannot. Your hearing grows more acute when you pick up on every little sound. You may not know what your spouse is doing until she or he does it. Your skin tingles in anticipation and at the first touch upon your flesh, whether it be with a knife, a hand, an ice cube, hot wax, a clothespin or whatever your imaginations can dream up, you react instantly with a sharp use of breath. Tactile sensations become poignant and are the sole focus once you are unable to see.
Earplugs These link very, very nicely with blindfolds. For any true sensory deprivation experience, your options are substantial. On one side, you can choose the cheap memory foam earplugs present in most grocery or pharmacy. There are industrial variants which are similar, and there are also the hoods that some sex shops sell. Intimidating yet finely crafted, these (usually leather, though other construction choices are available) hoods provide both visual and auditory deprivation. Cutting ties to other senses besides sight serves only to heighten and prolong the experience.
Restraints From silk scarves to saran wrap to wrist/ankle cuffs or industrial strength bungee cord, when you wish to immobilize your lover, there are numerous options, according to what you want to accomplish and how comfortable your partner is with that one kink. Many ankle/wrist cuffs have metal D rings mounted on which you can affix your binder of choice. Ultimately, the objective of restraint is control. Direct your partner's sensations, which in turn lead to further enjoyment for of you. From orgasm control towards the most basic not enough simply being in a position to touch himself or herself or you, tying your partner up such as an erotic Christmas gift can be a great deal of fun. As with any aspect of this sort of fun, aspects key. You've got to be sure never to cut off the circulation of blood, and in the situation of saran wrap, your body loses being able to breathe and release heat, so you've to keep your partner cool. Once you remove it, the alternative will be true, and so do a robe or blanket handy.
Furthermore modest set of physical options (modest, since there are numerous options besides these which you'll experiment with to discover what you like), you will find scenarios and ideas, which can further heighten the pleasure and joy each party potentially experience. From conditioning - or honing your partner to get off by doing or wearing a specific thing (even just in public) to dirty talking, to roleplay, your choices are as boundless as the imagination. If you play it safe, and ensure your partner recognizes that you love him or her and will do right by him or her long after the welts and transient pains of want have faded, there isn't any end as to what you can do.
