Toys, Tricks and Tears: Having the Most Out of Your BDSM Play3439493
Whether you are merely about the fringes of the kinky bondage toys, or it permeates the very fiber of one's being understanding that of your partner/lover also, there is something for everyone. New experiences and apparatuses to elicit wonderful and varied responses to heighten said experiences are simply around the corner. Elation, even tears (of want and desire rather than pain or anguish, since sex should 'never' cause genuine harm) are a real chance with thoughtful, evocative sex play. Include us, and we'll explore this winding road leading into the depths of this sweet intoxicating blending of passion and pain.
Blindfolds and Sensation Play
For a few, blindfolds are the quintessential accessory for any D/s playtime. Sensory deprivation in conjunction with the sensory overload in the areas meshed with the complete and absolute trust needed to be willing to wear one makes this a magnificent tool. Imagine, for a moment, as the shade slips over your vision, turning your eyesight to blackness. You could move, more likely though, you cannot. Your hearing grows more acute as you pick up on every little sound. You will not know what your lover is doing until they does it. Your skin layer tingles in anticipation and at the first touch upon your flesh, whether it is with a knife, support, an ice cube, hot wax, a clothespin or whatever your imaginations can dream up, you react instantly having a sharp consumption of breath. Tactile sensations become poignant and therefore are the sole focus once you are unable to see.
Earplugs These link very, very nicely with blindfolds. For any true sensory deprivation experience, your options are substantial. On the other hand, you can opt for the cheap polyurethane foam earplugs seen in most grocery or drug stores. There are industrial variants which are similar, and then there are the hoods that some sex shops sell. Intimidating yet finely crafted, these (usually leather, though other construction options are available) hoods provide both visual and auditory deprivation. Cutting ties along with other senses besides sight serves and then heighten and prolong the ability.
Restraints From silk scarves to saran wrap to wrist/ankle cuffs or industrial strength bungee cord, when you need to immobilize your lover, there are numerous options, based on what you want to complete and how comfortable your spouse is with that specific kink. Many ankle/wrist cuffs include metal D rings attached with which you can affix your binder associated with preference. Ultimately, the goal of restraint is control. Direct your partner's sensations, which in turn lead to further enjoyment for of you. From orgasm control to the most basic insufficient simply being able to touch themselves or you, tying your spouse up like an erotic Christmas gift could be a great deal of fun. Just like any aspect of this kind of fun, safety factors are key. You must be sure to not cut off blood flow, and in the situation of saran wrap, the body loses its ability to breathe and release heat, so you've to keep your partner cool. When you remove it, the opposite will be true, so have a robe or blanket handy.
Additionally modest list of physical options (modest, since there are numerous options besides these that you can experiment with to discover what you like), you will find scenarios and concepts, which can further heighten the pleasure and joy each party potentially experience. From conditioning - or honing your spouse to get off by doing or wearing a particular thing (during public) to dirty talking, to roleplay, your choices are as boundless since your imagination. So long as you play it safe, and be sure your partner recognizes that you love him or her and will do right by them long after the welts and transient pains of want have faded, there is no end to what you can do.
