Toys, Tricks and Tears: Having the Most Out of Your BDSM Play9028439
If you are merely around the fringes from the best bondage, or it permeates the very fiber of your being understanding that of your partner/lover too, there is something for everyone. New experiences and apparatuses to elicit wonderful and varied responses in order to increase said experiences are simply around the corner. Elation, even tears (of want and require rather than pain or anguish, since sex should 'never' cause genuine harm) are a real chance with thoughtful, evocative sex play. Come with us, and we'll explore this winding road leading down into the depths of that sweet intoxicating blending of passion and pain.
Blindfolds and Sensation Play
For many, blindfolds are the quintessential addition for any D/s playtime. Sensory deprivation along with the sensory overload in other locations meshed with the complete and absolute trust must be willing to wear you make this a magnificent tool. Imagine, as it were, as the shade slips over the eyes, turning how well you see to blackness. You could move, more inclined though, you can not. Your hearing gets to be more acute while you pick up on every little sound. You may not know what your lover is doing until he or she does it. Your skin layer tingles in anticipation and also at the first touch upon your flesh, be it with a knife, help, an ice cube, hot wax, a clothespin or whatever your imaginations can dream up, you react instantly with a sharp use of breath. Tactile sensations become poignant and are the sole focus when you are unable to see.
Earplugs These link very, very nicely with blindfolds. For any true sensory deprivation experience, your alternatives are substantial. On the one hand, you can opt for the cheap memory foam earplugs seen in most grocery or pharmacies. There are industrial variants which can be similar, and then there are the hoods that some sex shops sell. Intimidating yet finely crafted, these (usually leather, though other construction option is available) hoods provide both visual and auditory deprivation. Cutting ties along with other senses besides sight serves only to heighten and prolong the experience.
Restraints From silk scarves to saran wrap to wrist/ankle cuffs or industrial strength bungee cord, when you need to immobilize your lover, there are numerous options, depending on what you want to complete and how comfortable your spouse is with that particular kink. Many ankle/wrist cuffs have metal D rings attached with which you can affix your binder of preference. Ultimately, the goal of restraint is control. Direct your partner's sensations, which in turn lead to further enjoyment both for of you. From orgasm control to the most basic not enough simply being capable of touch themselves or you, tying your partner up such as an erotic Christmas gift could be a great deal of fun. Just like any aspect of this kind of fun, safety is key. You must be sure to not cut off the circulation of blood, and in the situation of saran wrap, the body loses being able to breathe and release heat, so you've got to keep your partner cool. Whenever you remove it, the contrary will be true, and so do a robe or blanket handy.
In addition to this modest set of physical options (modest, since there are numerous options besides these that you can experiment with to find out what you like), you will find scenarios and ideas, which can further heighten the pleasure and joy each party potentially experience. From conditioning - or honing your lover to get off by doing or wearing a specific thing (even in public) to dirty talking, to roleplay, your options are as boundless since your imagination. Providing you play it safe, and make sure your partner knows that you love her or him and will do right by him or her long after the welts and transient pains of want have faded, there isn't any end to what you can do.
