Toys, Tricks and Tears: Having the Most Out of Your BDSM Play2741984
Regardless if you are merely on the fringes with the bondage gear, or it permeates the fiber of one's being which of your partner/lover also, there is something for everybody. New experiences and apparatuses to elicit wonderful and varied responses to heighten said experiences are just around the corner. Elation, even tears (of want and need rather than pain or anguish, since sex should 'never' cause genuine harm) really are a real chance with thoughtful, evocative sex play. Come with us, and we'll explore this winding road leading down into the depths of the sweet intoxicating blending of passion and pain.
Blindfolds and Sensation Play
For a few, blindfolds are the quintessential addition for any D/s playtime. Sensory deprivation in conjunction with the sensory overload in the areas meshed with the complete and absolute trust must be willing to wear you make this a magnificent tool. Imagine, as it were, as the shade slips over your vision, turning how well you see to blackness. You may move, much more likely though, you can't. Your hearing becomes more acute as you pick up on every little sound. You won't know what your spouse is doing until she or he does it. Your skin tingles in anticipation and at the first touch upon your flesh, whether it be with a knife, a hand, an ice cube, hot wax, a clothespin or whatever your imaginations can dream up, you react instantly using a sharp use of breath. Tactile sensations become poignant and so are the sole focus once you are unable to see.
Earplugs These link very, very nicely with blindfolds. To get a true sensory deprivation experience, your choices are substantial. On one side, you can choose the cheap polyurethane foam earplugs seen in most grocery or drug stores. There are industrial variants that are similar, and there are also the hoods that some sex shops sell. Intimidating yet finely crafted, these (usually leather, though other construction option is available) hoods provide both visual and auditory deprivation. Cutting ties along with other senses besides sight serves and then heighten and prolong the experience.
Restraints From silk scarves to saran wrap to wrist/ankle cuffs or industrial strength bungee cord, when you want to immobilize your partner, there are numerous options, based on what you want to do and how comfortable your lover is with that specific kink. Many ankle/wrist cuffs have metal D rings attached with which you can affix your binder of choice. Ultimately, the goal of restraint is control. Direct your partner's sensations, which lead to further enjoyment for both of you. From orgasm control towards the most basic lack of simply being able to touch herself or himself or you, tying your partner up like an erotic Christmas gift can be quite a great deal of fun. As with every aspect of this sort of fun, aspects key. You must be sure never to cut off the circulation of blood, and in the truth of saran wrap, our bodies loses being able to breathe and release heat, so you've got to keep your partner cool. Whenever you remove it, the alternative will be true, and so do have a robe or blanket handy.
Furthermore modest list of physical options (modest, as there are numerous options besides these that you can experiment with to discover what you like), there are scenarios and ideas, which can further heighten the pleasure and joy both sides potentially experience. From conditioning - or honing your partner to get off by doing or wearing a particular thing (during public) to dirty talking, to roleplay, your choices are as boundless as your imagination. If you play it safe, and ensure your partner recognizes that you love him or her and will do right by her or him long after the welts and transient pains of want have faded, there is no end as to the you can do.
