Toys, Tricks and Tears: Getting the Most Out of Your BDSM Play6026735
If you are merely about the fringes from the kinky bondage toys, or it permeates the very fiber of the being understanding that of your partner/lover as well, there is something for everyone. New experiences and apparatuses to elicit wonderful and varied responses in order to increase said experiences are only around the corner. Elation, even tears (of want and require rather than pain or anguish, since sex should 'never' cause genuine harm) really are a real chance with thoughtful, evocative sex play. Include us, and we'll explore this winding road leading on to the depths of that sweet intoxicating blending of passion and pain.
Blindfolds and Sensation Play
For many, blindfolds are the quintessential addition for any D/s playtime. Sensory deprivation coupled with the sensory overload in the areas meshed with the complete and absolute trust would have to be willing to wear you make this a magnificent tool. Imagine, as it were, as the shade slips over your vision, turning how well you see to blackness. You may move, much more likely though, you can not. Your hearing grows more acute while you pick up on every little sound. You may not know what your lover is doing until she or he does it. Your skin layer tingles in anticipation at the first touch upon your flesh, whether it be with a knife, a hand, an ice cube, hot wax, a clothespin or whatever your imaginations can dream up, you react instantly having a sharp use of breath. Tactile sensations become poignant and so are the sole focus when you're unable to see.
Earplugs These link very, very nicely with blindfolds. For a true sensory deprivation experience, your choices are substantial. On the other hand, you can opt for the cheap memory foam earplugs seen in most grocery or drug stores. There are industrial variants which can be similar, and then there are the hoods that some sex shops sell. Intimidating yet finely crafted, these (usually leather, though other construction option is available) hoods provide both visual and auditory deprivation. Cutting ties to other senses besides sight serves simply to heighten and prolong the experience.
Restraints From silk scarves to saran wrap to wrist/ankle cuffs or industrial strength bungee cord, when you want to immobilize your lover, there are numerous options, depending on what you want to accomplish and how comfortable your partner is with that particular kink. Many ankle/wrist cuffs come with metal D rings attached to which you can affix your binder associated with preference. Ultimately, the goal of restraint is control. Direct your partner's sensations, which lead to further enjoyment for both of you. From orgasm control for the most basic insufficient simply being capable of touch himself or herself or you, tying your lover up as an erotic Christmas gift could be a great deal of fun. As with every aspect of this kind of fun, aspects key. You must be sure never to cut off blood circulation, and in the situation of saran wrap, your body loses being able to breathe and release heat, so you've got to keep your partner cool. When you remove it, the contrary will be true, so have a robe or blanket handy.
In addition to this modest set of physical options (modest, as there are numerous options besides these which you can experiment with to learn what you like), you will find scenarios and ideas, which can further heighten the pleasure and joy both sides potentially experience. From conditioning - or honing your spouse to get off by doing or wearing a specific thing (even in public) to dirty talking, to roleplay, your choices are as boundless as your imagination. So long as you play it safe, and ensure your partner knows that you love him or her and will do right by her or him long after the welts and transient pains of want have faded, there isn't any end as to the you can do.
