Toys, Tricks and Tears: Getting the Most Out of Your BDSM Play1280324
Whether you are merely about the fringes of the bondage toys, or it permeates the very fiber of the being which of your partner/lover too, there is something for all. New experiences and apparatuses to elicit wonderful and varied responses in order to increase said experiences are simply around the corner. Elation, even tears (of want and need rather than pain or anguish, since sex should 'never' cause genuine harm) are a real chance with thoughtful, evocative sex play. Come with us, and we'll explore this winding road leading down into the depths of that sweet intoxicating blending of passion and pain.
Blindfolds and Sensation Play
For many, blindfolds are the quintessential accessory for any D/s playtime. Sensory deprivation coupled with the sensory overload in other locations meshed with the complete and absolute trust needed to be willing to wear one makes this a magnificent tool. Imagine, for a moment, as the shade slips over the eyes, turning how well you see to blackness. You may move, much more likely though, you can not. Your hearing grows more acute as you pick up on every little sound. You will not know what your companion is doing until she or he does it. The skin tingles in anticipation and also at the first touch upon your flesh, be it with a knife, a hand, an ice cube, hot wax, a clothespin or whatever your imaginations can envision, you react instantly using a sharp intake of breath. Tactile sensations become poignant and so are the sole focus when you're unable to see.
Earplugs These link very, very nicely with blindfolds. For a true sensory deprivation experience, your options are substantial. On the one hand, you can choose the cheap polyurethane foam earplugs present in most grocery or drug stores. There are industrial variants which can be similar, and then there are the hoods that some sex shops sell. Intimidating yet finely crafted, these (usually leather, though other construction choices are available) hoods provide both visual and auditory deprivation. Cutting ties with other senses besides sight serves simply to heighten and prolong the experience.
Restraints From silk scarves to saran wrap to wrist/ankle cuffs or industrial strength bungee cord, when you need to immobilize your spouse, there are numerous options, based on what you want to complete and how comfortable your partner is with that particular kink. Many ankle/wrist cuffs include metal D rings attached with which you can affix your binder of preference. Ultimately, the purpose of restraint is control. Direct your partner's sensations, which often lead to further enjoyment both for of you. From orgasm control towards the most basic insufficient simply being capable of touch himself or herself or you, tying your spouse up as an erotic Christmas gift can be quite a great deal of fun. As with every aspect of this type of fun, aspects key. You must be sure never to cut off the circulation of blood, and in the case of saran wrap, the body loses its capability to breathe and release heat, so you've got to keep your partner cool. When you remove it, the opposite will be true, so have a robe or blanket handy.
In addition to this modest listing of physical options (modest, as there are numerous options besides these which you'll experiment with to discover what you like), you will find scenarios and concepts, which can further heighten the pleasure and joy both parties potentially experience. From conditioning - or honing your partner to get off by doing or wearing a specific thing (during public) to dirty talking, to roleplay, your options are as boundless as your imagination. Providing you play it safe, and make sure your partner sees that you love him or her and will do right by them long after the welts and transient pains of want have faded, there's no end as to what you can do.
