Toys, Tricks and Tears: Having the Most Out of Your BDSM Play2879092
If you are merely around the fringes of the kinky bondage toys, or it permeates the very fiber of your being understanding that of your partner/lover as well, there is something for everyone. New experiences and apparatuses to elicit wonderful and varied responses to heighten said experiences are simply around the corner. Elation, even tears (of want and need rather than pain or anguish, since sex should 'never' cause genuine harm) are a real chance with thoughtful, evocative sex play. Come with us, and we'll explore this winding road leading down into the depths of this sweet intoxicating blending of passion and pain.
Blindfolds and Sensation Play
For many, blindfolds are the quintessential accessory for any D/s playtime. Sensory deprivation in conjunction with the sensory overload in other areas meshed with the complete and absolute trust must be willing to wear you make this a magnificent tool. Imagine, if you will, as the shade slips over the eyes, turning how well you see to blackness. Perhaps you can move, much more likely though, you cannot. Your hearing gets to be more acute while you pick up on every little sound. You may not know what your spouse is doing until she or he does it. The skin tingles in anticipation and at the first touch upon your flesh, whether it is with a knife, a hand, an ice cube, hot wax, a clothespin or whatever your imaginations can dream up, you react instantly with a sharp use of breath. Tactile sensations become poignant and so are the sole focus once you are unable to see.
Earplugs These link very, very nicely with blindfolds. For a true sensory deprivation experience, your choices are substantial. On one side, you can go with the cheap memory foam earplugs present in most grocery or pharmacies. There are industrial variants which can be similar, and there are also the hoods that some sex shops sell. Intimidating yet finely crafted, these (usually leather, though other construction option is available) hoods provide both visual and auditory deprivation. Cutting ties to other senses besides sight serves simply to heighten and prolong the experience.
Restraints From silk scarves to saran wrap to wrist/ankle cuffs or industrial strength bungee cord, when you wish to immobilize your partner, there are numerous options, based on what you want to accomplish and how comfortable your partner is with that one kink. Many ankle/wrist cuffs have metal D rings attached with which you can affix your binder associated with preference. Ultimately, the objective of restraint is control. Direct your partner's sensations, which often lead to further enjoyment both for of you. From orgasm control towards the most basic not enough simply being in a position to touch himself or herself or you, tying your lover up like an erotic Christmas gift can be a great deal of fun. As with any aspect of this type of fun, safety factors are key. You've got to be sure not to cut off blood flow, and in the truth of saran wrap, the body loses being able to breathe and release heat, so you've got to keep your partner cool. Whenever you remove it, the opposite will be true, and so do have a robe or blanket handy.
Additionally modest list of physical options (modest, since there are numerous options besides these which you'll experiment with to learn what you like), you will find scenarios and concepts, which can further heighten the pleasure and joy each party potentially experience. From conditioning - or honing your partner to get off by doing or wearing a certain thing (even just in public) to dirty talking, to roleplay, your options are as boundless since your imagination. So long as you play it safe, and ensure your partner recognizes that you love him or her and will do right by her or him long after the welts and transient pains of want have faded, there is no end as to the you can do.
