Toys, Tricks and Tears: Having the Most Out of Your BDSM Play2904193
If you are merely around the fringes from the bondage gear, or it permeates the very fiber of the being which of your partner/lover also, there is something for everybody. New experiences and apparatuses to elicit wonderful and varied responses in order to increase said experiences are simply around the corner. Elation, even tears (of want and require rather than pain or anguish, since sex should 'never' cause genuine harm) really are a real chance with thoughtful, evocative sex play. Have us, and we'll explore this winding road leading on to the depths of this sweet intoxicating blending of passion and pain.
Blindfolds and Sensation Play
For a few, blindfolds are the quintessential addition to any D/s playtime. Sensory deprivation coupled with the sensory overload in other areas meshed with the complete and absolute trust must be willing to wear you make this a magnificent tool. Imagine, if you will, as the shade slips over the eyes, turning how well you see to blackness. Perhaps you can move, more inclined though, you can not. Your hearing gets to be more acute when you pick up on every little sound. You will not know what your spouse is doing until they does it. Your skin tingles in anticipation and at the first touch upon your flesh, be it with a knife, support, an ice cube, hot wax, a clothespin or whatever your imaginations can dream up, you react instantly using a sharp intake of breath. Tactile sensations become poignant and therefore are the sole focus when you are unable to see.
Earplugs These link very, very nicely with blindfolds. For a true sensory deprivation experience, your choices are substantial. On the other hand, you can opt for the cheap foam earplugs found in most grocery or drug stores. There are industrial variants which are similar, there are also the hoods that some sex shops sell. Intimidating yet finely crafted, these (usually leather, though other construction choices are available) hoods provide both visual and auditory deprivation. Cutting ties with other senses besides sight serves simply to heighten and prolong the experience.
Restraints From silk scarves to saran wrap to wrist/ankle cuffs or industrial strength bungee cord, when you need to immobilize your partner, there are numerous options, based on what you want to do and how comfortable your partner is with that specific kink. Many ankle/wrist cuffs include metal D rings mounted on which you can affix your binder of preference. Ultimately, the objective of restraint is control. Direct your partner's sensations, which often lead to further enjoyment for both of you. From orgasm control to the most basic not enough simply being in a position to touch herself or himself or you, tying your lover up as an erotic Christmas gift can be a great deal of fun. As with every aspect of this sort of fun, safety factors are key. You have to be sure never to cut off blood circulation, and in the truth of saran wrap, our bodies loses being able to breathe and release heat, so you've got to keep your partner cool. Whenever you remove it, the opposite will be true, and so do a robe or blanket handy.
Furthermore modest set of physical options (modest, because there are numerous options besides these that you can experiment with to find out what you like), you will find scenarios and concepts, which can further heighten the pleasure and joy both sides potentially experience. From conditioning - or honing your spouse to get off by doing or wearing a certain thing (even just in public) to dirty talking, to roleplay, your alternatives are as boundless as your imagination. If you play it safe, and make sure your partner knows that you love her or him and will do right by them long after the welts and transient pains of want have faded, there isn't any end as to what you can do.
