Toys, Tricks and Tears: Getting the Most Out of Your BDSM Play3320653
Whether you are merely about the fringes with the bondage toys, or it permeates the very fiber of the being which of your partner/lover as well, there is something for everybody. New experiences and apparatuses to elicit wonderful and varied responses in order to increase said experiences are simply around the corner. Elation, even tears (of want and desire rather than pain or anguish, since sex should 'never' cause genuine harm) really are a real chance with thoughtful, evocative sex play. Include us, and we'll explore this winding road leading on to the depths of this sweet intoxicating blending of passion and pain.
Blindfolds and Sensation Play
For many, blindfolds are the quintessential addition for any D/s playtime. Sensory deprivation in conjunction with the sensory overload in other locations meshed with the complete and absolute trust must be willing to wear you make this a magnificent tool. Imagine, as it were, as the shade slips over your vision, turning your eyesight to blackness. You could move, more likely though, you cannot. Your hearing grows more acute as you pick up on every little sound. You may not know what your spouse is doing until he or she does it. Your skin tingles in anticipation and at the first touch upon your flesh, whether it is with a knife, a hand, an ice cube, hot wax, a clothespin or whatever your imaginations can dream up, you react instantly having a sharp intake of breath. Tactile sensations become poignant and are the sole focus when you are unable to see.
Earplugs These link very, very nicely with blindfolds. To get a true sensory deprivation experience, your choices are substantial. On one side, you can go with the cheap foam earplugs seen in most grocery or pharmacy. There are industrial variants which can be similar, and then there are the hoods that some sex shops sell. Intimidating yet finely crafted, these (usually leather, though other construction options are available) hoods provide both visual and auditory deprivation. Cutting ties to other senses besides sight serves and then heighten and prolong the ability.
Restraints From silk scarves to saran wrap to wrist/ankle cuffs or industrial strength bungee cord, when you want to immobilize your partner, there are numerous options, based on what you want to accomplish and how comfortable your lover is with that specific kink. Many ankle/wrist cuffs include metal D rings mounted on which you can affix your binder of preference. Ultimately, the purpose of restraint is control. Direct your partner's sensations, which lead to further enjoyment both for of you. From orgasm control towards the most basic lack of simply being able to touch himself or herself or you, tying your partner up like an erotic Christmas gift can be quite a great deal of fun. As with any aspect of this kind of fun, aspects key. You've got to be sure not to cut off the circulation of blood, and in the truth of saran wrap, the body loses its ability to breathe and release heat, so you've got to keep your partner cool. Once you remove it, the alternative will be true, and so do have a robe or blanket handy.
Furthermore modest list of physical options (modest, because there are numerous options besides these which you'll experiment with to discover what you like), you will find scenarios and concepts, which can further heighten the pleasure and joy both sides potentially experience. From conditioning - or honing your spouse to get off by doing or wearing a specific thing (even in public) to dirty talking, to roleplay, your options are as boundless since your imagination. So long as you play it safe, and make sure your partner sees that you love them and will do right by them long after the welts and transient pains of want have faded, there's no end as to what you can do.
