Toys, Tricks and Tears: Getting the Most Out of Your BDSM Play4105067
Regardless if you are merely around the fringes of the kinky bondage toys, or it permeates the fiber of one's being which of your partner/lover too, there is something for all. New experiences and apparatuses to elicit wonderful and varied responses in order to increase said experiences are only around the corner. Elation, even tears (of want and desire rather than pain or anguish, since sex should 'never' cause genuine harm) are a real chance with thoughtful, evocative sex play. Come with us, and we'll explore this winding road leading into the depths of that sweet intoxicating blending of passion and pain.
Blindfolds and Sensation Play
For some, blindfolds are the quintessential addition to any D/s playtime. Sensory deprivation coupled with the sensory overload in other areas meshed with the complete and absolute trust would have to be willing to wear one makes this a magnificent tool. Imagine, for a moment, as the shade slips over the eyes, turning your eyesight to blackness. You could move, more inclined though, you can't. Your hearing gets to be more acute as you pick up on every little sound. You won't know what your companion is doing until she or he does it. Your skin layer tingles in anticipation and also at the first touch upon your flesh, whether it is with a knife, help, an ice cube, hot wax, a clothespin or whatever your imaginations can envision, you react instantly using a sharp use of breath. Tactile sensations become poignant and so are the sole focus once you are unable to see.
Earplugs These link very, very nicely with blindfolds. For a true sensory deprivation experience, your alternatives are substantial. On the one hand, you can choose the cheap memory foam earplugs seen in most grocery or pharmacy. There are industrial variants which can be similar, and then there are the hoods that some sex shops sell. Intimidating yet finely crafted, these (usually leather, though other construction choices are available) hoods provide both visual and auditory deprivation. Cutting ties along with other senses besides sight serves only to heighten and prolong the ability.
Restraints From silk scarves to saran wrap to wrist/ankle cuffs or industrial strength bungee cord, when you wish to immobilize your spouse, there are numerous options, according to what you want to complete and how comfortable your spouse is with that particular kink. Many ankle/wrist cuffs come with metal D rings attached to which you can affix your binder associated with preference. Ultimately, the goal of restraint is control. Direct your partner's sensations, which lead to further enjoyment both for of you. From orgasm control to the most basic insufficient simply being able to touch herself or himself or you, tying your spouse up like an erotic Christmas gift could be a great deal of fun. As with any aspect of this type of fun, aspects key. You've got to be sure to not cut off blood circulation, and in the case of saran wrap, the body loses being able to breathe and release heat, so you've got to keep your partner cool. When you remove it, the alternative will be true, and so do a robe or blanket handy.
In addition to this modest list of physical options (modest, because there are numerous options besides these that you can experiment with to discover what you like), you can find scenarios and concepts, which can further heighten the pleasure and joy both sides potentially experience. From conditioning - or honing your spouse to get off by doing or wearing a certain thing (even just in public) to dirty talking, to roleplay, your options are as boundless since your imagination. So long as you play it safe, and make sure your partner knows that you love them and will do right by him or her long after the welts and transient pains of want have faded, there's no end to what you can do.
