Toys, Tricks and Tears: Getting the Most Out of Your BDSM Play163876
Regardless if you are merely about the fringes with the bondage toys, or it permeates ab muscles fiber of your being understanding that of your partner/lover too, there is something for all. New experiences and apparatuses to elicit wonderful and varied responses in order to increase said experiences are only around the corner. Elation, even tears (of want and need rather than pain or anguish, since sex should 'never' cause genuine harm) are a real chance with thoughtful, evocative sex play. Come with us, and we'll explore this winding road leading on to the depths of this sweet intoxicating blending of passion and pain.
Blindfolds and Sensation Play
For some, blindfolds are the quintessential addition to any D/s playtime. Sensory deprivation in conjunction with the sensory overload in the areas meshed with the complete and absolute trust would have to be willing to wear one makes this a magnificent tool. Imagine, for a moment, as the shade slips over the eyes, turning how well you see to blackness. You may move, more inclined though, you cannot. Your hearing becomes more acute as you pick up on every little sound. You may not know what your lover is doing until they does it. Your skin layer tingles in anticipation at the first touch upon your flesh, whether it is with a knife, help, an ice cube, hot wax, a clothespin or whatever your imaginations can dream up, you react instantly with a sharp intake of breath. Tactile sensations become poignant and are the sole focus once you are unable to see.
Earplugs These link very, very nicely with blindfolds. To get a true sensory deprivation experience, your options are substantial. On the other hand, you can opt for the cheap foam earplugs present in most grocery or pharmacy. There are industrial variants that are similar, and then there are the hoods that some sex shops sell. Intimidating yet finely crafted, these (usually leather, though other construction choices are available) hoods provide both visual and auditory deprivation. Cutting ties along with other senses besides sight serves simply to heighten and prolong the knowledge.
Restraints From silk scarves to saran wrap to wrist/ankle cuffs or industrial strength bungee cord, when you wish to immobilize your lover, there are numerous options, based on what you want to do and how comfortable your partner is with that particular kink. Many ankle/wrist cuffs have metal D rings attached to which you can affix your binder of preference. Ultimately, the purpose of restraint is control. Direct your partner's sensations, which lead to further enjoyment both for of you. From orgasm control to the most basic lack of simply being able to touch himself or herself or you, tying your lover up such as an erotic Christmas gift could be a great deal of fun. Just like any aspect of this kind of fun, safety factors are key. You've got to be sure never to cut off blood circulation, and in the situation of saran wrap, your body loses its ability to breathe and release heat, so you have to keep your partner cool. When you remove it, the alternative will be true, and so do a robe or blanket handy.
Furthermore modest listing of physical options (modest, since there are numerous options besides these which you can experiment with to find out what you like), there are scenarios and concepts, which can further heighten the pleasure and joy each party potentially experience. From conditioning - or honing your lover to get off by doing or wearing a certain thing (even just in public) to dirty talking, to roleplay, your alternatives are as boundless as the imagination. Providing you play it safe, and make sure your partner knows that you love them and will do right by him or her long after the welts and transient pains of want have faded, there is no end as to the you can do.
