Toys, Tricks and Tears: Getting the Most Out of Your BDSM Play2218175
Whether you are merely about the fringes from the bondage gear, or it permeates the very fiber of the being and that of your partner/lover too, there is something for everybody. New experiences and apparatuses to elicit wonderful and varied responses in order to increase said experiences are just around the corner. Elation, even tears (of want and need rather than pain or anguish, since sex should 'never' cause genuine harm) certainly are a real chance with thoughtful, evocative sex play. Come with us, and we'll explore this winding road leading down into the depths of this sweet intoxicating blending of passion and pain.
Blindfolds and Sensation Play
For a few, blindfolds are the quintessential addition for any D/s playtime. Sensory deprivation coupled with the sensory overload in other locations meshed with the complete and absolute trust must be willing to wear one makes this a magnificent tool. Imagine, as it were, as the shade slips over the eyes, turning your eyesight to blackness. Perhaps you can move, more inclined though, you can't. Your hearing gets to be more acute when you pick up on every little sound. You won't know what your spouse is doing until they does it. Your skin layer tingles in anticipation at the first touch upon your flesh, whether it be with a knife, a hand, an ice cube, hot wax, a clothespin or whatever your imaginations can envision, you react instantly having a sharp intake of breath. Tactile sensations become poignant and are the sole focus when you're unable to see.
Earplugs These link very, very nicely with blindfolds. For a true sensory deprivation experience, your options are substantial. On the other hand, you can choose the cheap foam earplugs present in most grocery or pharmacies. There are industrial variants which can be similar, there are also the hoods that some sex shops sell. Intimidating yet finely crafted, these (usually leather, though other construction option is available) hoods provide both visual and auditory deprivation. Cutting ties with other senses besides sight serves and then heighten and prolong the ability.
Restraints From silk scarves to saran wrap to wrist/ankle cuffs or industrial strength bungee cord, when you wish to immobilize your lover, there are numerous options, based on what you want to accomplish and how comfortable your spouse is with that one kink. Many ankle/wrist cuffs have metal D rings attached to which you can affix your binder associated with preference. Ultimately, the objective of restraint is control. Direct your partner's sensations, which lead to further enjoyment both for of you. From orgasm control for the most basic lack of simply being in a position to touch themselves or you, tying your partner up as an erotic Christmas gift can be quite a great deal of fun. Just like any aspect of this kind of fun, safety factors are key. You have to be sure never to cut off blood circulation, and in the truth of saran wrap, the body loses its capability to breathe and release heat, so you've to keep your partner cool. When you remove it, the alternative will be true, so have a robe or blanket handy.
In addition to this modest list of physical options (modest, since there are numerous options besides these which you can experiment with to discover what you like), you can find scenarios and concepts, which can further heighten the pleasure and joy both sides potentially experience. From conditioning - or honing your lover to get off by doing or wearing a specific thing (even in public) to dirty talking, to roleplay, your alternatives are as boundless as the imagination. So long as you play it safe, and ensure your partner knows that you love him or her and will do right by her or him long after the welts and transient pains of want have faded, there's no end as to the you can do.
