Toys, Tricks and Tears: Getting the Most Out of Your BDSM Play3115810
Whether you are merely around the fringes with the bondage toys, or it permeates the fiber of your being understanding that of your partner/lover too, there is something for everybody. New experiences and apparatuses to elicit wonderful and varied responses to heighten said experiences are only around the corner. Elation, even tears (of want and need rather than pain or anguish, since sex should 'never' cause genuine harm) really are a real chance with thoughtful, evocative sex play. Come with us, and we'll explore this winding road leading into the depths of this sweet intoxicating blending of passion and pain.
Blindfolds and Sensation Play
For a few, blindfolds are the quintessential addition for any D/s playtime. Sensory deprivation in conjunction with the sensory overload in other locations meshed with the complete and absolute trust would have to be willing to wear one makes this a magnificent tool. Imagine, for a moment, as the shade slips over your eyes, turning how well you see to blackness. You could move, much more likely though, you can't. Your hearing becomes more acute when you pick up on every little sound. You won't know what your lover is doing until he or she does it. Your skin tingles in anticipation and also at the first touch upon your flesh, whether it is with a knife, a hand, an ice cube, hot wax, a clothespin or whatever your imaginations can dream up, you react instantly having a sharp use of breath. Tactile sensations become poignant and are the sole focus when you're unable to see.
Earplugs These link very, very nicely with blindfolds. For any true sensory deprivation experience, your alternatives are substantial. On the other hand, you can opt for the cheap polyurethane foam earplugs seen in most grocery or pharmacies. There are industrial variants which are similar, and there are also the hoods that some sex shops sell. Intimidating yet finely crafted, these (usually leather, though other construction choices are available) hoods provide both visual and auditory deprivation. Cutting ties to other senses besides sight serves and then heighten and prolong the experience.
Restraints From silk scarves to saran wrap to wrist/ankle cuffs or industrial strength bungee cord, when you want to immobilize your partner, there are numerous options, depending on what you want to complete and how comfortable your spouse is with that specific kink. Many ankle/wrist cuffs include metal D rings mounted on which you can affix your binder of preference. Ultimately, the purpose of restraint is control. Direct your partner's sensations, which often lead to further enjoyment for both of you. From orgasm control towards the most basic not enough simply being able to touch himself or herself or you, tying your lover up like an erotic Christmas gift can be a great deal of fun. As with any aspect of this sort of fun, aspects key. You have to be sure to not cut off blood circulation, and in the truth of saran wrap, your body loses its ability to breathe and release heat, so you've to keep your partner cool. Once you remove it, the contrary will be true, and so do have a robe or blanket handy.
Furthermore modest set of physical options (modest, since there are numerous options besides these which you can experiment with to find out what you like), there are scenarios and concepts, which can further heighten the pleasure and joy both parties potentially experience. From conditioning - or honing your spouse to get off by doing or wearing a certain thing (during public) to dirty talking, to roleplay, your choices are as boundless as your imagination. So long as you play it safe, and make sure your partner knows that you love her or him and will do right by him or her long after the welts and transient pains of want have faded, there is no end as to the you can do.
