Toys, Tricks and Tears: Getting the Most Out of Your BDSM Play3938021
Whether you are merely about the fringes with the kinky bondage toys, or it permeates the fiber of your being and that of your partner/lover as well, there is something for all. New experiences and apparatuses to elicit wonderful and varied responses in order to increase said experiences are only around the corner. Elation, even tears (of want and need rather than pain or anguish, since sex should 'never' cause genuine harm) certainly are a real chance with thoughtful, evocative sex play. Come with us, and we'll explore this winding road leading into the depths of this sweet intoxicating blending of passion and pain.
Blindfolds and Sensation Play
For a few, blindfolds are the quintessential accessory for any D/s playtime. Sensory deprivation in conjunction with the sensory overload in the areas meshed with the complete and absolute trust needed to be willing to wear one makes this a magnificent tool. Imagine, as it were, as the shade slips over your vision, turning your eyesight to blackness. You may move, more likely though, you cannot. Your hearing gets to be more acute as you pick up on every little sound. You may not know what your spouse is doing until he or she does it. The skin tingles in anticipation and at the first touch upon your flesh, whether it be with a knife, a hand, an ice cube, hot wax, a clothespin or whatever your imaginations can envision, you react instantly having a sharp use of breath. Tactile sensations become poignant and are the sole focus when you are unable to see.
Earplugs These link very, very nicely with blindfolds. To get a true sensory deprivation experience, your choices are substantial. On the one hand, you can opt for the cheap memory foam earplugs found in most grocery or pharmacies. There are industrial variants which can be similar, and there are also the hoods that some sex shops sell. Intimidating yet finely crafted, these (usually leather, though other construction option is available) hoods provide both visual and auditory deprivation. Cutting ties with other senses besides sight serves simply to heighten and prolong the experience.
Restraints From silk scarves to saran wrap to wrist/ankle cuffs or industrial strength bungee cord, when you wish to immobilize your partner, there are numerous options, based on what you want to complete and how comfortable your spouse is with that one kink. Many ankle/wrist cuffs have metal D rings mounted on which you can affix your binder associated with preference. Ultimately, the objective of restraint is control. Direct your partner's sensations, which in turn lead to further enjoyment for both of you. From orgasm control towards the most basic lack of simply being in a position to touch themselves or you, tying your spouse up such as an erotic Christmas gift can be a great deal of fun. Just like any aspect of this type of fun, safety factors are key. You've got to be sure to not cut off blood flow, and in the situation of saran wrap, the body loses its capability to breathe and release heat, so you've got to keep your partner cool. When you remove it, the opposite will be true, and so do a robe or blanket handy.
Additionally modest list of physical options (modest, since there are numerous options besides these that you can experiment with to discover what you like), you will find scenarios and concepts, which can further heighten the pleasure and joy each party potentially experience. From conditioning - or honing your partner to get off by doing or wearing a certain thing (even in public) to dirty talking, to roleplay, your alternatives are as boundless as your imagination. So long as you play it safe, and ensure your partner knows that you love them and will do right by him or her long after the welts and transient pains of want have faded, there isn't any end as to what you can do.
