Toys, Tricks and Tears: Getting the Most Out of Your BDSM Play4574931
Regardless if you are merely around the fringes from the best bondage, or it permeates the fiber of the being and that of your partner/lover also, there is something for everybody. New experiences and apparatuses to elicit wonderful and varied responses in order to increase said experiences are just around the corner. Elation, even tears (of want and need rather than pain or anguish, since sex should 'never' cause genuine harm) certainly are a real chance with thoughtful, evocative sex play. Come with us, and we'll explore this winding road leading down into the depths of the sweet intoxicating blending of passion and pain.
Blindfolds and Sensation Play
For many, blindfolds are the quintessential accessory for any D/s playtime. Sensory deprivation coupled with the sensory overload in other areas meshed with the complete and absolute trust must be willing to wear one makes this a magnificent tool. Imagine, if you will, as the shade slips over the eyes, turning your eyesight to blackness. Perhaps you can move, more likely though, you can't. Your hearing grows more acute as you pick up on every little sound. You won't know what your lover is doing until she or he does it. The skin tingles in anticipation and also at the first touch upon your flesh, be it with a knife, a hand, an ice cube, hot wax, a clothespin or whatever your imaginations can envision, you react instantly using a sharp consumption of breath. Tactile sensations become poignant and are the sole focus when you are unable to see.
Earplugs These link very, very nicely with blindfolds. To get a true sensory deprivation experience, your alternatives are substantial. On one side, you can opt for the cheap foam earplugs seen in most grocery or pharmacy. There are industrial variants that are similar, there are also the hoods that some sex shops sell. Intimidating yet finely crafted, these (usually leather, though other construction option is available) hoods provide both visual and auditory deprivation. Cutting ties along with other senses besides sight serves and then heighten and prolong the experience.
Restraints From silk scarves to saran wrap to wrist/ankle cuffs or industrial strength bungee cord, when you wish to immobilize your partner, there are numerous options, based on what you want to complete and how comfortable your lover is with that particular kink. Many ankle/wrist cuffs include metal D rings attached to which you can affix your binder of choice. Ultimately, the goal of restraint is control. Direct your partner's sensations, which often lead to further enjoyment for both of you. From orgasm control towards the most basic insufficient simply being capable of touch themselves or you, tying your spouse up as an erotic Christmas gift could be a great deal of fun. As with any aspect of this kind of fun, safety is key. You've got to be sure to not cut off blood circulation, and in the truth of saran wrap, your body loses its capability to breathe and release heat, so you've to keep your partner cool. Once you remove it, the opposite will be true, so have a robe or blanket handy.
Furthermore modest listing of physical options (modest, because there are numerous options besides these which you can experiment with to discover what you like), you will find scenarios and concepts, which can further heighten the pleasure and joy both sides potentially experience. From conditioning - or honing your lover to get off by doing or wearing a particular thing (even just in public) to dirty talking, to roleplay, your options are as boundless as the imagination. So long as you play it safe, and make sure your partner knows that you love him or her and will do right by them long after the welts and transient pains of want have faded, there isn't any end to what you can do.
