Toys, Tricks and Tears: Getting the Most Out of Your BDSM Play8071840
Whether you are merely on the fringes from the bondage gear, or it permeates the fiber of your being and that of your partner/lover as well, there is something for everyone. New experiences and apparatuses to elicit wonderful and varied responses in order to increase said experiences are only around the corner. Elation, even tears (of want and desire rather than pain or anguish, since sex should 'never' cause genuine harm) are a real chance with thoughtful, evocative sex play. Come with us, and we'll explore this winding road leading down into the depths of that sweet intoxicating blending of passion and pain.
Blindfolds and Sensation Play
For some, blindfolds are the quintessential addition for any D/s playtime. Sensory deprivation in conjunction with the sensory overload in other locations meshed with the complete and absolute trust would have to be willing to wear you make this a magnificent tool. Imagine, for a moment, as the shade slips over your eyes, turning how well you see to blackness. You could move, much more likely though, you cannot. Your hearing becomes more acute when you pick up on every little sound. You won't know what your companion is doing until she or he does it. Your skin tingles in anticipation at the first touch upon your flesh, be it with a knife, support, an ice cube, hot wax, a clothespin or whatever your imaginations can envision, you react instantly using a sharp consumption of breath. Tactile sensations become poignant and so are the sole focus when you are unable to see.
Earplugs These link very, very nicely with blindfolds. For any true sensory deprivation experience, your choices are substantial. On the other hand, you can choose the cheap foam earplugs present in most grocery or pharmacy. There are industrial variants which can be similar, and then there are the hoods that some sex shops sell. Intimidating yet finely crafted, these (usually leather, though other construction option is available) hoods provide both visual and auditory deprivation. Cutting ties with other senses besides sight serves and then heighten and prolong the experience.
Restraints From silk scarves to saran wrap to wrist/ankle cuffs or industrial strength bungee cord, when you wish to immobilize your partner, there are numerous options, according to what you want to do and how comfortable your spouse is with that specific kink. Many ankle/wrist cuffs come with metal D rings attached to which you can affix your binder of preference. Ultimately, the purpose of restraint is control. Direct your partner's sensations, which lead to further enjoyment both for of you. From orgasm control to the most basic insufficient simply being able to touch themselves or you, tying your partner up such as an erotic Christmas gift can be a great deal of fun. As with every aspect of this type of fun, safety is key. You have to be sure to not cut off blood flow, and in the truth of saran wrap, the body loses its ability to breathe and release heat, so you've to keep your partner cool. Whenever you remove it, the alternative will be true, and so do have a robe or blanket handy.
Additionally modest list of physical options (modest, because there are numerous options besides these that you can experiment with to learn what you like), you can find scenarios and ideas, which can further heighten the pleasure and joy both parties potentially experience. From conditioning - or honing your lover to get off by doing or wearing a certain thing (during public) to dirty talking, to roleplay, your options are as boundless as the imagination. So long as you play it safe, and ensure your partner sees that you love them and will do right by him or her long after the welts and transient pains of want have faded, there's no end as to what you can do.
