Toys, Tricks and Tears: Getting the Most Out of Your BDSM Play8911897
Whether you are merely on the fringes with the best bondage, or it permeates the fiber of the being understanding that of your partner/lover too, there is something for everybody. New experiences and apparatuses to elicit wonderful and varied responses in order to increase said experiences are only around the corner. Elation, even tears (of want and need rather than pain or anguish, since sex should 'never' cause genuine harm) are a real chance with thoughtful, evocative sex play. Include us, and we'll explore this winding road leading on to the depths of that sweet intoxicating blending of passion and pain.
Blindfolds and Sensation Play
For many, blindfolds are the quintessential addition for any D/s playtime. Sensory deprivation in conjunction with the sensory overload in other locations meshed with the complete and absolute trust must be willing to wear one makes this a magnificent tool. Imagine, for a moment, as the shade slips over your eyes, turning your vision to blackness. You could move, more inclined though, you can not. Your hearing grows more acute as you pick up on every little sound. You will not know what your companion is doing until he or she does it. Your skin layer tingles in anticipation and at the first touch upon your flesh, whether it is with a knife, support, an ice cube, hot wax, a clothespin or whatever your imaginations can envision, you react instantly with a sharp intake of breath. Tactile sensations become poignant and therefore are the sole focus once you are unable to see.
Earplugs These link very, very nicely with blindfolds. To get a true sensory deprivation experience, your choices are substantial. On the other hand, you can choose the cheap polyurethane foam earplugs found in most grocery or pharmacies. There are industrial variants that are similar, there are also the hoods that some sex shops sell. Intimidating yet finely crafted, these (usually leather, though other construction option is available) hoods provide both visual and auditory deprivation. Cutting ties with other senses besides sight serves simply to heighten and prolong the ability.
Restraints From silk scarves to saran wrap to wrist/ankle cuffs or industrial strength bungee cord, when you need to immobilize your lover, there are numerous options, based on what you want to do and how comfortable your spouse is with that specific kink. Many ankle/wrist cuffs have metal D rings mounted on which you can affix your binder of preference. Ultimately, the purpose of restraint is control. Direct your partner's sensations, which lead to further enjoyment for both of you. From orgasm control towards the most basic insufficient simply being able to touch himself or herself or you, tying your spouse up such as an erotic Christmas gift can be quite a great deal of fun. As with any aspect of this sort of fun, safety is key. You have to be sure to not cut off blood circulation, and in the situation of saran wrap, your body loses being able to breathe and release heat, so you've to keep your partner cool. Once you remove it, the alternative will be true, and so do have a robe or blanket handy.
Additionally modest set of physical options (modest, because there are numerous options besides these which you can experiment with to find out what you like), you will find scenarios and ideas, which can further heighten the pleasure and joy both sides potentially experience. From conditioning - or honing your lover to get off by doing or wearing a particular thing (even just in public) to dirty talking, to roleplay, your choices are as boundless as the imagination. Providing you play it safe, and ensure your partner recognizes that you love him or her and will do right by him or her long after the welts and transient pains of want have faded, there isn't any end to what you can do.
