Toys, Tricks and Tears: Having the Most Out of Your BDSM Play1408539
Whether you are merely on the fringes from the bondage gear, or it permeates ab muscles fiber of the being understanding that of your partner/lover as well, there is something for everyone. New experiences and apparatuses to elicit wonderful and varied responses in order to increase said experiences are only around the corner. Elation, even tears (of want and require rather than pain or anguish, since sex should 'never' cause genuine harm) certainly are a real chance with thoughtful, evocative sex play. Come with us, and we'll explore this winding road leading down into the depths of the sweet intoxicating blending of passion and pain.
Blindfolds and Sensation Play
For a few, blindfolds are the quintessential addition to any D/s playtime. Sensory deprivation in conjunction with the sensory overload in other areas meshed with the complete and absolute trust needed to be willing to wear one makes this a magnificent tool. Imagine, as it were, as the shade slips over the eyes, turning your vision to blackness. You may move, more likely though, you cannot. Your hearing becomes more acute when you pick up on every little sound. You won't know what your companion is doing until he or she does it. Your skin tingles in anticipation and also at the first touch upon your flesh, whether it be with a knife, help, an ice cube, hot wax, a clothespin or whatever your imaginations can envision, you react instantly with a sharp use of breath. Tactile sensations become poignant and so are the sole focus once you are unable to see.
Earplugs These link very, very nicely with blindfolds. To get a true sensory deprivation experience, your options are substantial. On one side, you can opt for the cheap polyurethane foam earplugs present in most grocery or pharmacies. There are industrial variants that are similar, and there are also the hoods that some sex shops sell. Intimidating yet finely crafted, these (usually leather, though other construction options are available) hoods provide both visual and auditory deprivation. Cutting ties with other senses besides sight serves simply to heighten and prolong the ability.
Restraints From silk scarves to saran wrap to wrist/ankle cuffs or industrial strength bungee cord, when you need to immobilize your spouse, there are numerous options, based on what you want to complete and how comfortable your partner is with that particular kink. Many ankle/wrist cuffs include metal D rings attached to which you can affix your binder of preference. Ultimately, the goal of restraint is control. Direct your partner's sensations, which in turn lead to further enjoyment for of you. From orgasm control for the most basic insufficient simply being able to touch themselves or you, tying your spouse up like an erotic Christmas gift can be quite a great deal of fun. Just like any aspect of this sort of fun, safety factors are key. You've got to be sure not to cut off the circulation of blood, and in the truth of saran wrap, our bodies loses its capability to breathe and release heat, so you've got to keep your partner cool. When you remove it, the contrary will be true, and so do have a robe or blanket handy.
Additionally modest list of physical options (modest, as there are numerous options besides these which you can experiment with to find out what you like), you will find scenarios and concepts, which can further heighten the pleasure and joy both sides potentially experience. From conditioning - or honing your lover to get off by doing or wearing a specific thing (even just in public) to dirty talking, to roleplay, your choices are as boundless as your imagination. Providing you play it safe, and be sure your partner sees that you love him or her and will do right by them long after the welts and transient pains of want have faded, there isn't any end to what you can do.
