Toys, Tricks and Tears: Having the Most Out of Your BDSM Play1753269
Regardless if you are merely around the fringes with the bondage toys, or it permeates ab muscles fiber of one's being understanding that of your partner/lover too, there is something for everybody. New experiences and apparatuses to elicit wonderful and varied responses in order to increase said experiences are just around the corner. Elation, even tears (of want and need rather than pain or anguish, since sex should 'never' cause genuine harm) certainly are a real chance with thoughtful, evocative sex play. Include us, and we'll explore this winding road leading on to the depths of this sweet intoxicating blending of passion and pain.
Blindfolds and Sensation Play
For a few, blindfolds are the quintessential accessory for any D/s playtime. Sensory deprivation coupled with the sensory overload in other locations meshed with the complete and absolute trust would have to be willing to wear you make this a magnificent tool. Imagine, for a moment, as the shade slips over the eyes, turning your vision to blackness. Perhaps you can move, much more likely though, you cannot. Your hearing becomes more acute when you pick up on every little sound. You will not know what your lover is doing until he or she does it. Your skin layer tingles in anticipation at the first touch upon your flesh, whether it be with a knife, support, an ice cube, hot wax, a clothespin or whatever your imaginations can envision, you react instantly having a sharp intake of breath. Tactile sensations become poignant and therefore are the sole focus when you're unable to see.
Earplugs These link very, very nicely with blindfolds. To get a true sensory deprivation experience, your options are substantial. On the one hand, you can opt for the cheap memory foam earplugs found in most grocery or pharmacy. There are industrial variants which are similar, and there are also the hoods that some sex shops sell. Intimidating yet finely crafted, these (usually leather, though other construction choices are available) hoods provide both visual and auditory deprivation. Cutting ties along with other senses besides sight serves simply to heighten and prolong the ability.
Restraints From silk scarves to saran wrap to wrist/ankle cuffs or industrial strength bungee cord, when you want to immobilize your partner, there are numerous options, according to what you want to accomplish and how comfortable your lover is with that specific kink. Many ankle/wrist cuffs include metal D rings attached to which you can affix your binder of preference. Ultimately, the purpose of restraint is control. Direct your partner's sensations, which in turn lead to further enjoyment for of you. From orgasm control for the most basic not enough simply being able to touch herself or himself or you, tying your partner up like an erotic Christmas gift can be quite a great deal of fun. As with any aspect of this kind of fun, safety factors are key. You must be sure to not cut off blood flow, and in the case of saran wrap, the body loses being able to breathe and release heat, so you've got to keep your partner cool. When you remove it, the contrary will be true, and so do a robe or blanket handy.
Furthermore modest list of physical options (modest, as there are numerous options besides these that you can experiment with to learn what you like), you can find scenarios and concepts, which can further heighten the pleasure and joy each party potentially experience. From conditioning - or honing your spouse to get off by doing or wearing a particular thing (even just in public) to dirty talking, to roleplay, your alternatives are as boundless as your imagination. So long as you play it safe, and make sure your partner recognizes that you love them and will do right by them long after the welts and transient pains of want have faded, there is no end as to the you can do.
