Toys, Tricks and Tears: Having the Most Out of Your BDSM Play2013754
If you are merely about the fringes with the best bondage, or it permeates the very fiber of the being which of your partner/lover also, there is something for everybody. New experiences and apparatuses to elicit wonderful and varied responses to heighten said experiences are simply around the corner. Elation, even tears (of want and require rather than pain or anguish, since sex should 'never' cause genuine harm) are a real chance with thoughtful, evocative sex play. Come with us, and we'll explore this winding road leading on to the depths of that sweet intoxicating blending of passion and pain.
Blindfolds and Sensation Play
For some, blindfolds are the quintessential addition to any D/s playtime. Sensory deprivation along with the sensory overload in other locations meshed with the complete and absolute trust would have to be willing to wear one makes this a magnificent tool. Imagine, if you will, as the shade slips over your eyes, turning your vision to blackness. Perhaps you can move, much more likely though, you can not. Your hearing becomes more acute as you pick up on every little sound. You won't know what your companion is doing until he or she does it. The skin tingles in anticipation and also at the first touch upon your flesh, be it with a knife, help, an ice cube, hot wax, a clothespin or whatever your imaginations can dream up, you react instantly using a sharp consumption of breath. Tactile sensations become poignant and so are the sole focus when you're unable to see.
Earplugs These link very, very nicely with blindfolds. For a true sensory deprivation experience, your choices are substantial. On the other hand, you can choose the cheap foam earplugs found in most grocery or pharmacy. There are industrial variants that are similar, and there are also the hoods that some sex shops sell. Intimidating yet finely crafted, these (usually leather, though other construction options are available) hoods provide both visual and auditory deprivation. Cutting ties to other senses besides sight serves simply to heighten and prolong the ability.
Restraints From silk scarves to saran wrap to wrist/ankle cuffs or industrial strength bungee cord, when you wish to immobilize your spouse, there are numerous options, depending on what you want to accomplish and how comfortable your spouse is with that particular kink. Many ankle/wrist cuffs have metal D rings attached with which you can affix your binder of preference. Ultimately, the purpose of restraint is control. Direct your partner's sensations, which in turn lead to further enjoyment both for of you. From orgasm control towards the most basic insufficient simply being in a position to touch themselves or you, tying your spouse up like an erotic Christmas gift can be a great deal of fun. As with every aspect of this kind of fun, safety is key. You've got to be sure to not cut off blood circulation, and in the truth of saran wrap, the body loses its ability to breathe and release heat, so you have to keep your partner cool. When you remove it, the opposite will be true, so have a robe or blanket handy.
Furthermore modest listing of physical options (modest, because there are numerous options besides these which you'll experiment with to discover what you like), you will find scenarios and ideas, which can further heighten the pleasure and joy both parties potentially experience. From conditioning - or honing your spouse to get off by doing or wearing a certain thing (during public) to dirty talking, to roleplay, your choices are as boundless since your imagination. So long as you play it safe, and be sure your partner sees that you love him or her and will do right by her or him long after the welts and transient pains of want have faded, there's no end as to what you can do.
