Toys, Tricks and Tears: Having the Most Out of Your BDSM Play3596071
Regardless if you are merely on the fringes from the kinky bondage toys, or it permeates the fiber of your being understanding that of your partner/lover as well, there is something for all. New experiences and apparatuses to elicit wonderful and varied responses in order to increase said experiences are only around the corner. Elation, even tears (of want and desire rather than pain or anguish, since sex should 'never' cause genuine harm) certainly are a real chance with thoughtful, evocative sex play. Come with us, and we'll explore this winding road leading into the depths of the sweet intoxicating blending of passion and pain.
Blindfolds and Sensation Play
For some, blindfolds are the quintessential addition for any D/s playtime. Sensory deprivation along with the sensory overload in the areas meshed with the complete and absolute trust needed to be willing to wear one makes this a magnificent tool. Imagine, as it were, as the shade slips over your eyes, turning your eyesight to blackness. Perhaps you can move, much more likely though, you can not. Your hearing becomes more acute when you pick up on every little sound. You will not know what your spouse is doing until they does it. Your skin layer tingles in anticipation and at the first touch upon your flesh, whether it be with a knife, help, an ice cube, hot wax, a clothespin or whatever your imaginations can dream up, you react instantly using a sharp use of breath. Tactile sensations become poignant and therefore are the sole focus once you are unable to see.
Earplugs These link very, very nicely with blindfolds. For a true sensory deprivation experience, your options are substantial. On the other hand, you can go with the cheap memory foam earplugs present in most grocery or pharmacies. There are industrial variants which are similar, and there are also the hoods that some sex shops sell. Intimidating yet finely crafted, these (usually leather, though other construction choices are available) hoods provide both visual and auditory deprivation. Cutting ties to other senses besides sight serves and then heighten and prolong the experience.
Restraints From silk scarves to saran wrap to wrist/ankle cuffs or industrial strength bungee cord, when you need to immobilize your spouse, there are numerous options, depending on what you want to complete and how comfortable your partner is with that specific kink. Many ankle/wrist cuffs come with metal D rings attached to which you can affix your binder of choice. Ultimately, the purpose of restraint is control. Direct your partner's sensations, which in turn lead to further enjoyment for both of you. From orgasm control to the most basic lack of simply being in a position to touch themselves or you, tying your spouse up like an erotic Christmas gift could be a great deal of fun. As with any aspect of this sort of fun, safety is key. You've got to be sure not to cut off the circulation of blood, and in the case of saran wrap, the body loses being able to breathe and release heat, so you've to keep your partner cool. Once you remove it, the opposite will be true, and so do have a robe or blanket handy.
Additionally modest set of physical options (modest, because there are numerous options besides these that you can experiment with to find out what you like), you will find scenarios and concepts, which can further heighten the pleasure and joy both parties potentially experience. From conditioning - or honing your lover to get off by doing or wearing a specific thing (during public) to dirty talking, to roleplay, your options are as boundless since your imagination. Providing you play it safe, and make sure your partner recognizes that you love them and will do right by him or her long after the welts and transient pains of want have faded, there isn't any end as to the you can do.
