Toys, Tricks and Tears: Having the Most Out of Your BDSM Play3832970
If you are merely around the fringes of the bondage gear, or it permeates the fiber of one's being and that of your partner/lover also, there is something for everybody. New experiences and apparatuses to elicit wonderful and varied responses to heighten said experiences are just around the corner. Elation, even tears (of want and desire rather than pain or anguish, since sex should 'never' cause genuine harm) certainly are a real chance with thoughtful, evocative sex play. Come with us, and we'll explore this winding road leading down into the depths of this sweet intoxicating blending of passion and pain.
Blindfolds and Sensation Play
For some, blindfolds are the quintessential addition for any D/s playtime. Sensory deprivation coupled with the sensory overload in other areas meshed with the complete and absolute trust needed to be willing to wear you make this a magnificent tool. Imagine, if you will, as the shade slips over your eyes, turning your eyesight to blackness. You could move, more likely though, you can't. Your hearing gets to be more acute as you pick up on every little sound. You will not know what your lover is doing until he or she does it. Your skin layer tingles in anticipation and at the first touch upon your flesh, be it with a knife, support, an ice cube, hot wax, a clothespin or whatever your imaginations can envision, you react instantly having a sharp consumption of breath. Tactile sensations become poignant and are the sole focus when you are unable to see.
Earplugs These link very, very nicely with blindfolds. To get a true sensory deprivation experience, your options are substantial. On the other hand, you can go with the cheap polyurethane foam earplugs found in most grocery or pharmacy. There are industrial variants which can be similar, and there are also the hoods that some sex shops sell. Intimidating yet finely crafted, these (usually leather, though other construction choices are available) hoods provide both visual and auditory deprivation. Cutting ties along with other senses besides sight serves and then heighten and prolong the ability.
Restraints From silk scarves to saran wrap to wrist/ankle cuffs or industrial strength bungee cord, when you wish to immobilize your partner, there are numerous options, based on what you want to accomplish and how comfortable your partner is with that one kink. Many ankle/wrist cuffs have metal D rings mounted on which you can affix your binder of choice. Ultimately, the objective of restraint is control. Direct your partner's sensations, which in turn lead to further enjoyment for both of you. From orgasm control for the most basic not enough simply being capable of touch herself or himself or you, tying your lover up like an erotic Christmas gift could be a great deal of fun. As with any aspect of this type of fun, aspects key. You have to be sure not to cut off the circulation of blood, and in the truth of saran wrap, our bodies loses its capability to breathe and release heat, so you've got to keep your partner cool. When you remove it, the opposite will be true, so have a robe or blanket handy.
In addition to this modest list of physical options (modest, since there are numerous options besides these which you can experiment with to find out what you like), there are scenarios and ideas, which can further heighten the pleasure and joy both sides potentially experience. From conditioning - or honing your lover to get off by doing or wearing a certain thing (even just in public) to dirty talking, to roleplay, your choices are as boundless since your imagination. Providing you play it safe, and be sure your partner knows that you love them and will do right by them long after the welts and transient pains of want have faded, there is no end to what you can do.
