Toys, Tricks and Tears: Having the Most Out of Your BDSM Play513022
Whether you are merely around the fringes from the kinky bondage toys, or it permeates the very fiber of your being which of your partner/lover as well, there is something for all. New experiences and apparatuses to elicit wonderful and varied responses to heighten said experiences are only around the corner. Elation, even tears (of want and desire rather than pain or anguish, since sex should 'never' cause genuine harm) certainly are a real chance with thoughtful, evocative sex play. Have us, and we'll explore this winding road leading into the depths of this sweet intoxicating blending of passion and pain.
Blindfolds and Sensation Play
For many, blindfolds are the quintessential addition for any D/s playtime. Sensory deprivation along with the sensory overload in the areas meshed with the complete and absolute trust would have to be willing to wear one makes this a magnificent tool. Imagine, as it were, as the shade slips over your eyes, turning your eyesight to blackness. You could move, much more likely though, you can't. Your hearing becomes more acute while you pick up on every little sound. You will not know what your spouse is doing until they does it. Your skin layer tingles in anticipation and also at the first touch upon your flesh, whether it is with a knife, a hand, an ice cube, hot wax, a clothespin or whatever your imaginations can envision, you react instantly with a sharp consumption of breath. Tactile sensations become poignant and so are the sole focus when you are unable to see.
Earplugs These link very, very nicely with blindfolds. To get a true sensory deprivation experience, your choices are substantial. On the one hand, you can go with the cheap polyurethane foam earplugs found in most grocery or pharmacies. There are industrial variants that are similar, there are also the hoods that some sex shops sell. Intimidating yet finely crafted, these (usually leather, though other construction choices are available) hoods provide both visual and auditory deprivation. Cutting ties to other senses besides sight serves and then heighten and prolong the knowledge.
Restraints From silk scarves to saran wrap to wrist/ankle cuffs or industrial strength bungee cord, when you wish to immobilize your spouse, there are numerous options, based on what you want to complete and how comfortable your spouse is with that specific kink. Many ankle/wrist cuffs have metal D rings attached to which you can affix your binder of preference. Ultimately, the objective of restraint is control. Direct your partner's sensations, which often lead to further enjoyment for both of you. From orgasm control to the most basic insufficient simply being able to touch themselves or you, tying your lover up as an erotic Christmas gift can be a great deal of fun. As with any aspect of this sort of fun, safety is key. You've got to be sure not to cut off the circulation of blood, and in the situation of saran wrap, the body loses its capability to breathe and release heat, so you've got to keep your partner cool. Once you remove it, the opposite will be true, and so do have a robe or blanket handy.
Additionally modest list of physical options (modest, as there are numerous options besides these which you'll experiment with to discover what you like), there are scenarios and ideas, which can further heighten the pleasure and joy each party potentially experience. From conditioning - or honing your spouse to get off by doing or wearing a particular thing (even just in public) to dirty talking, to roleplay, your alternatives are as boundless as your imagination. Providing you play it safe, and be sure your partner sees that you love her or him and will do right by her or him long after the welts and transient pains of want have faded, there's no end as to what you can do.
