Toys, Tricks and Tears: Having the Most Out of Your BDSM Play5493913
If you are merely about the fringes from the best bondage, or it permeates the fiber of your being understanding that of your partner/lover as well, there is something for everyone. New experiences and apparatuses to elicit wonderful and varied responses in order to increase said experiences are simply around the corner. Elation, even tears (of want and desire rather than pain or anguish, since sex should 'never' cause genuine harm) really are a real chance with thoughtful, evocative sex play. Include us, and we'll explore this winding road leading on to the depths of this sweet intoxicating blending of passion and pain.
Blindfolds and Sensation Play
For a few, blindfolds are the quintessential addition for any D/s playtime. Sensory deprivation coupled with the sensory overload in other areas meshed with the complete and absolute trust needed to be willing to wear one makes this a magnificent tool. Imagine, if you will, as the shade slips over the eyes, turning your vision to blackness. Perhaps you can move, more likely though, you can not. Your hearing grows more acute when you pick up on every little sound. You may not know what your spouse is doing until she or he does it. The skin tingles in anticipation at the first touch upon your flesh, be it with a knife, support, an ice cube, hot wax, a clothespin or whatever your imaginations can dream up, you react instantly having a sharp consumption of breath. Tactile sensations become poignant and therefore are the sole focus when you are unable to see.
Earplugs These link very, very nicely with blindfolds. To get a true sensory deprivation experience, your choices are substantial. On the other hand, you can opt for the cheap polyurethane foam earplugs seen in most grocery or pharmacies. There are industrial variants that are similar, there are also the hoods that some sex shops sell. Intimidating yet finely crafted, these (usually leather, though other construction options are available) hoods provide both visual and auditory deprivation. Cutting ties with other senses besides sight serves simply to heighten and prolong the ability.
Restraints From silk scarves to saran wrap to wrist/ankle cuffs or industrial strength bungee cord, when you want to immobilize your partner, there are numerous options, depending on what you want to accomplish and how comfortable your lover is with that one kink. Many ankle/wrist cuffs have metal D rings attached to which you can affix your binder of choice. Ultimately, the purpose of restraint is control. Direct your partner's sensations, which often lead to further enjoyment for of you. From orgasm control for the most basic not enough simply being in a position to touch herself or himself or you, tying your partner up like an erotic Christmas gift could be a great deal of fun. As with every aspect of this type of fun, aspects key. You have to be sure never to cut off the circulation of blood, and in the case of saran wrap, your body loses being able to breathe and release heat, so you've got to keep your partner cool. Whenever you remove it, the contrary will be true, so have a robe or blanket handy.
Additionally modest set of physical options (modest, since there are numerous options besides these that you can experiment with to discover what you like), you will find scenarios and ideas, which can further heighten the pleasure and joy both sides potentially experience. From conditioning - or honing your lover to get off by doing or wearing a certain thing (even just in public) to dirty talking, to roleplay, your choices are as boundless as your imagination. Providing you play it safe, and make sure your partner sees that you love them and will do right by her or him long after the welts and transient pains of want have faded, there's no end as to what you can do.
