Toys, Tricks and Tears: Having the Most Out of Your BDSM Play768910
Regardless if you are merely about the fringes from the kinky bondage toys, or it permeates ab muscles fiber of your being and that of your partner/lover too, there is something for everybody. New experiences and apparatuses to elicit wonderful and varied responses in order to increase said experiences are simply around the corner. Elation, even tears (of want and need rather than pain or anguish, since sex should 'never' cause genuine harm) are a real chance with thoughtful, evocative sex play. Come with us, and we'll explore this winding road leading on to the depths of that sweet intoxicating blending of passion and pain.
Blindfolds and Sensation Play
For a few, blindfolds are the quintessential accessory for any D/s playtime. Sensory deprivation coupled with the sensory overload in other areas meshed with the complete and absolute trust would have to be willing to wear one makes this a magnificent tool. Imagine, as it were, as the shade slips over the eyes, turning your vision to blackness. You could move, more inclined though, you can not. Your hearing becomes more acute while you pick up on every little sound. You won't know what your spouse is doing until she or he does it. Your skin layer tingles in anticipation and also at the first touch upon your flesh, whether it is with a knife, help, an ice cube, hot wax, a clothespin or whatever your imaginations can envision, you react instantly with a sharp use of breath. Tactile sensations become poignant and therefore are the sole focus when you are unable to see.
Earplugs These link very, very nicely with blindfolds. For a true sensory deprivation experience, your alternatives are substantial. On the one hand, you can choose the cheap polyurethane foam earplugs present in most grocery or drug stores. There are industrial variants which can be similar, and then there are the hoods that some sex shops sell. Intimidating yet finely crafted, these (usually leather, though other construction options are available) hoods provide both visual and auditory deprivation. Cutting ties along with other senses besides sight serves simply to heighten and prolong the knowledge.
Restraints From silk scarves to saran wrap to wrist/ankle cuffs or industrial strength bungee cord, when you need to immobilize your spouse, there are numerous options, according to what you want to do and how comfortable your partner is with that particular kink. Many ankle/wrist cuffs come with metal D rings mounted on which you can affix your binder associated with preference. Ultimately, the objective of restraint is control. Direct your partner's sensations, which lead to further enjoyment for both of you. From orgasm control towards the most basic not enough simply being able to touch themselves or you, tying your spouse up as an erotic Christmas gift could be a great deal of fun. Just like any aspect of this type of fun, safety is key. You must be sure to not cut off blood circulation, and in the situation of saran wrap, the body loses its capability to breathe and release heat, so you have to keep your partner cool. Whenever you remove it, the opposite will be true, so have a robe or blanket handy.
In addition to this modest list of physical options (modest, as there are numerous options besides these that you can experiment with to learn what you like), you can find scenarios and concepts, which can further heighten the pleasure and joy both sides potentially experience. From conditioning - or honing your partner to get off by doing or wearing a certain thing (even in public) to dirty talking, to roleplay, your options are as boundless as the imagination. Providing you play it safe, and ensure your partner sees that you love him or her and will do right by her or him long after the welts and transient pains of want have faded, there's no end as to what you can do.
