Toys, Tricks and Tears: Having the Most Out of Your BDSM Play8404898
If you are merely about the fringes from the kinky bondage toys, or it permeates ab muscles fiber of the being understanding that of your partner/lover also, there is something for everyone. New experiences and apparatuses to elicit wonderful and varied responses in order to increase said experiences are just around the corner. Elation, even tears (of want and desire rather than pain or anguish, since sex should 'never' cause genuine harm) really are a real chance with thoughtful, evocative sex play. Include us, and we'll explore this winding road leading into the depths of this sweet intoxicating blending of passion and pain.
Blindfolds and Sensation Play
For some, blindfolds are the quintessential addition to any D/s playtime. Sensory deprivation along with the sensory overload in other areas meshed with the complete and absolute trust needed to be willing to wear you make this a magnificent tool. Imagine, for a moment, as the shade slips over your vision, turning how well you see to blackness. You may move, much more likely though, you cannot. Your hearing becomes more acute when you pick up on every little sound. You won't know what your lover is doing until he or she does it. Your skin layer tingles in anticipation and also at the first touch upon your flesh, whether it is with a knife, a hand, an ice cube, hot wax, a clothespin or whatever your imaginations can envision, you react instantly with a sharp use of breath. Tactile sensations become poignant and therefore are the sole focus when you're unable to see.
Earplugs These link very, very nicely with blindfolds. For a true sensory deprivation experience, your choices are substantial. On the one hand, you can go with the cheap memory foam earplugs seen in most grocery or pharmacies. There are industrial variants which are similar, there are also the hoods that some sex shops sell. Intimidating yet finely crafted, these (usually leather, though other construction options are available) hoods provide both visual and auditory deprivation. Cutting ties with other senses besides sight serves and then heighten and prolong the ability.
Restraints From silk scarves to saran wrap to wrist/ankle cuffs or industrial strength bungee cord, when you want to immobilize your partner, there are numerous options, depending on what you want to accomplish and how comfortable your partner is with that particular kink. Many ankle/wrist cuffs include metal D rings mounted on which you can affix your binder of preference. Ultimately, the objective of restraint is control. Direct your partner's sensations, which in turn lead to further enjoyment for both of you. From orgasm control for the most basic not enough simply being capable of touch himself or herself or you, tying your lover up such as an erotic Christmas gift could be a great deal of fun. Just like any aspect of this sort of fun, safety factors are key. You have to be sure not to cut off blood flow, and in the situation of saran wrap, our bodies loses being able to breathe and release heat, so you've to keep your partner cool. When you remove it, the opposite will be true, and so do a robe or blanket handy.
Furthermore modest set of physical options (modest, since there are numerous options besides these which you'll experiment with to find out what you like), you can find scenarios and ideas, which can further heighten the pleasure and joy each party potentially experience. From conditioning - or honing your spouse to get off by doing or wearing a certain thing (even just in public) to dirty talking, to roleplay, your options are as boundless since your imagination. So long as you play it safe, and ensure your partner sees that you love them and will do right by him or her long after the welts and transient pains of want have faded, there's no end to what you can do.
