Toys, Tricks and Tears: Obtaining the Most Out of Your BDSM Play7132414
Regardless if you are merely on the fringes from the bondage gear, or it permeates the fiber of your being understanding that of your partner/lover as well, there is something for everybody. New experiences and apparatuses to elicit wonderful and varied responses to heighten said experiences are just around the corner. Elation, even tears (of want and need rather than pain or anguish, since sex should 'never' cause genuine harm) are a real chance with thoughtful, evocative sex play. Have us, and we'll explore this winding road leading down into the depths of this sweet intoxicating blending of passion and pain.
Blindfolds and Sensation Play
For a few, blindfolds are the quintessential addition to any D/s playtime. Sensory deprivation in conjunction with the sensory overload in other locations meshed with the complete and absolute trust needed to be willing to wear you make this a magnificent tool. Imagine, for a moment, as the shade slips over the eyes, turning how well you see to blackness. Perhaps you can move, more inclined though, you cannot. Your hearing becomes more acute as you pick up on every little sound. You will not know what your companion is doing until she or he does it. Your skin tingles in anticipation and also at the first touch upon your flesh, be it with a knife, help, an ice cube, hot wax, a clothespin or whatever your imaginations can envision, you react instantly using a sharp use of breath. Tactile sensations become poignant and so are the sole focus when you are unable to see.
Earplugs These link very, very nicely with blindfolds. For any true sensory deprivation experience, your options are substantial. On the other hand, you can opt for the cheap memory foam earplugs found in most grocery or pharmacies. There are industrial variants which can be similar, and then there are the hoods that some sex shops sell. Intimidating yet finely crafted, these (usually leather, though other construction choices are available) hoods provide both visual and auditory deprivation. Cutting ties along with other senses besides sight serves only to heighten and prolong the experience.
Restraints From silk scarves to saran wrap to wrist/ankle cuffs or industrial strength bungee cord, when you want to immobilize your spouse, there are numerous options, according to what you want to do and how comfortable your partner is with that specific kink. Many ankle/wrist cuffs have metal D rings attached with which you can affix your binder of choice. Ultimately, the goal of restraint is control. Direct your partner's sensations, which lead to further enjoyment both for of you. From orgasm control to the most basic lack of simply being able to touch himself or herself or you, tying your lover up like an erotic Christmas gift can be quite a great deal of fun. Just like any aspect of this type of fun, safety factors are key. You must be sure never to cut off blood circulation, and in the case of saran wrap, our bodies loses its capability to breathe and release heat, so you've to keep your partner cool. Once you remove it, the opposite will be true, and so do have a robe or blanket handy.
In addition to this modest set of physical options (modest, since there are numerous options besides these which you can experiment with to discover what you like), you will find scenarios and ideas, which can further heighten the pleasure and joy both sides potentially experience. From conditioning - or honing your partner to get off by doing or wearing a specific thing (even in public) to dirty talking, to roleplay, your choices are as boundless as the imagination. Providing you play it safe, and make sure your partner sees that you love her or him and will do right by her or him long after the welts and transient pains of want have faded, there isn't any end to what you can do.
