Toys, Tricks and Tears: Obtaining the Most Out of Your BDSM Play8607563
Regardless if you are merely about the fringes from the bondage toys, or it permeates the very fiber of the being which of your partner/lover as well, there is something for all. New experiences and apparatuses to elicit wonderful and varied responses to heighten said experiences are just around the corner. Elation, even tears (of want and desire rather than pain or anguish, since sex should 'never' cause genuine harm) are a real chance with thoughtful, evocative sex play. Include us, and we'll explore this winding road leading on to the depths of this sweet intoxicating blending of passion and pain.
Blindfolds and Sensation Play
For some, blindfolds are the quintessential addition to any D/s playtime. Sensory deprivation in conjunction with the sensory overload in other locations meshed with the complete and absolute trust needed to be willing to wear one makes this a magnificent tool. Imagine, for a moment, as the shade slips over the eyes, turning your vision to blackness. You could move, much more likely though, you can't. Your hearing becomes more acute as you pick up on every little sound. You won't know what your lover is doing until he or she does it. The skin tingles in anticipation and at the first touch upon your flesh, whether it is with a knife, help, an ice cube, hot wax, a clothespin or whatever your imaginations can envision, you react instantly using a sharp use of breath. Tactile sensations become poignant and so are the sole focus when you're unable to see.
Earplugs These link very, very nicely with blindfolds. To get a true sensory deprivation experience, your options are substantial. On the other hand, you can opt for the cheap memory foam earplugs present in most grocery or pharmacies. There are industrial variants that are similar, and then there are the hoods that some sex shops sell. Intimidating yet finely crafted, these (usually leather, though other construction options are available) hoods provide both visual and auditory deprivation. Cutting ties with other senses besides sight serves and then heighten and prolong the knowledge.
Restraints From silk scarves to saran wrap to wrist/ankle cuffs or industrial strength bungee cord, when you need to immobilize your partner, there are numerous options, depending on what you want to accomplish and how comfortable your lover is with that particular kink. Many ankle/wrist cuffs come with metal D rings attached to which you can affix your binder of preference. Ultimately, the purpose of restraint is control. Direct your partner's sensations, which in turn lead to further enjoyment for both of you. From orgasm control towards the most basic insufficient simply being able to touch himself or herself or you, tying your spouse up as an erotic Christmas gift can be a great deal of fun. As with every aspect of this sort of fun, safety factors are key. You must be sure not to cut off the circulation of blood, and in the situation of saran wrap, the body loses its ability to breathe and release heat, so you have to keep your partner cool. When you remove it, the contrary will be true, and so do have a robe or blanket handy.
In addition to this modest list of physical options (modest, because there are numerous options besides these which you can experiment with to discover what you like), you can find scenarios and ideas, which can further heighten the pleasure and joy each party potentially experience. From conditioning - or honing your spouse to get off by doing or wearing a specific thing (even in public) to dirty talking, to roleplay, your options are as boundless since your imagination. So long as you play it safe, and ensure your partner knows that you love him or her and will do right by him or her long after the welts and transient pains of want have faded, there is no end as to what you can do.
