Toys, Tricks and Tears: Obtaining the Most Out of Your BDSM Play9310331
If you are merely on the fringes with the bondage toys, or it permeates ab muscles fiber of your being which of your partner/lover also, there is something for everybody. New experiences and apparatuses to elicit wonderful and varied responses in order to increase said experiences are only around the corner. Elation, even tears (of want and require rather than pain or anguish, since sex should 'never' cause genuine harm) really are a real chance with thoughtful, evocative sex play. Come with us, and we'll explore this winding road leading on to the depths of the sweet intoxicating blending of passion and pain.
Blindfolds and Sensation Play
For some, blindfolds are the quintessential addition to any D/s playtime. Sensory deprivation coupled with the sensory overload in the areas meshed with the complete and absolute trust would have to be willing to wear you make this a magnificent tool. Imagine, as it were, as the shade slips over the eyes, turning your eyesight to blackness. You could move, more inclined though, you can not. Your hearing gets to be more acute when you pick up on every little sound. You may not know what your spouse is doing until they does it. Your skin tingles in anticipation at the first touch upon your flesh, be it with a knife, a hand, an ice cube, hot wax, a clothespin or whatever your imaginations can envision, you react instantly with a sharp intake of breath. Tactile sensations become poignant and so are the sole focus once you are unable to see.
Earplugs These link very, very nicely with blindfolds. To get a true sensory deprivation experience, your alternatives are substantial. On the one hand, you can go with the cheap polyurethane foam earplugs found in most grocery or pharmacy. There are industrial variants that are similar, and then there are the hoods that some sex shops sell. Intimidating yet finely crafted, these (usually leather, though other construction choices are available) hoods provide both visual and auditory deprivation. Cutting ties with other senses besides sight serves simply to heighten and prolong the experience.
Restraints From silk scarves to saran wrap to wrist/ankle cuffs or industrial strength bungee cord, when you wish to immobilize your spouse, there are numerous options, based on what you want to do and how comfortable your lover is with that particular kink. Many ankle/wrist cuffs have metal D rings attached to which you can affix your binder of preference. Ultimately, the goal of restraint is control. Direct your partner's sensations, which often lead to further enjoyment both for of you. From orgasm control towards the most basic insufficient simply being in a position to touch herself or himself or you, tying your partner up like an erotic Christmas gift can be quite a great deal of fun. As with any aspect of this type of fun, aspects key. You must be sure never to cut off blood flow, and in the truth of saran wrap, your body loses its ability to breathe and release heat, so you have to keep your partner cool. Whenever you remove it, the alternative will be true, and so do a robe or blanket handy.
In addition to this modest list of physical options (modest, because there are numerous options besides these which you'll experiment with to discover what you like), you can find scenarios and concepts, which can further heighten the pleasure and joy each party potentially experience. From conditioning - or honing your spouse to get off by doing or wearing a specific thing (even in public) to dirty talking, to roleplay, your alternatives are as boundless as your imagination. So long as you play it safe, and make sure your partner sees that you love him or her and will do right by her or him long after the welts and transient pains of want have faded, there's no end to what you can do.
