Toys, Tricks and Tears: Obtaining the Most Out of Your BDSM Play9656697
If you are merely on the fringes of the best bondage, or it permeates the very fiber of one's being understanding that of your partner/lover also, there is something for all. New experiences and apparatuses to elicit wonderful and varied responses in order to increase said experiences are simply around the corner. Elation, even tears (of want and require rather than pain or anguish, since sex should 'never' cause genuine harm) certainly are a real chance with thoughtful, evocative sex play. Come with us, and we'll explore this winding road leading into the depths of this sweet intoxicating blending of passion and pain.
Blindfolds and Sensation Play
For a few, blindfolds are the quintessential addition to any D/s playtime. Sensory deprivation coupled with the sensory overload in other areas meshed with the complete and absolute trust must be willing to wear one makes this a magnificent tool. Imagine, for a moment, as the shade slips over your vision, turning your eyesight to blackness. You may move, more inclined though, you cannot. Your hearing grows more acute while you pick up on every little sound. You won't know what your lover is doing until they does it. The skin tingles in anticipation and at the first touch upon your flesh, whether it be with a knife, help, an ice cube, hot wax, a clothespin or whatever your imaginations can dream up, you react instantly having a sharp use of breath. Tactile sensations become poignant and therefore are the sole focus when you're unable to see.
Earplugs These link very, very nicely with blindfolds. To get a true sensory deprivation experience, your options are substantial. On one side, you can choose the cheap foam earplugs seen in most grocery or pharmacy. There are industrial variants which are similar, and there are also the hoods that some sex shops sell. Intimidating yet finely crafted, these (usually leather, though other construction choices are available) hoods provide both visual and auditory deprivation. Cutting ties to other senses besides sight serves simply to heighten and prolong the experience.
Restraints From silk scarves to saran wrap to wrist/ankle cuffs or industrial strength bungee cord, when you need to immobilize your spouse, there are numerous options, depending on what you want to complete and how comfortable your partner is with that particular kink. Many ankle/wrist cuffs have metal D rings attached with which you can affix your binder of choice. Ultimately, the objective of restraint is control. Direct your partner's sensations, which in turn lead to further enjoyment both for of you. From orgasm control towards the most basic not enough simply being in a position to touch himself or herself or you, tying your lover up such as an erotic Christmas gift can be a great deal of fun. Just like any aspect of this kind of fun, safety factors are key. You've got to be sure never to cut off the circulation of blood, and in the situation of saran wrap, our bodies loses being able to breathe and release heat, so you have to keep your partner cool. Once you remove it, the alternative will be true, so have a robe or blanket handy.
In addition to this modest list of physical options (modest, because there are numerous options besides these which you can experiment with to discover what you like), there are scenarios and ideas, which can further heighten the pleasure and joy each party potentially experience. From conditioning - or honing your spouse to get off by doing or wearing a specific thing (during public) to dirty talking, to roleplay, your choices are as boundless as the imagination. Providing you play it safe, and be sure your partner sees that you love her or him and will do right by him or her long after the welts and transient pains of want have faded, there's no end as to the you can do.
