Toys, Tricks and Tears: Getting the Most Out of Your BDSM Play4782132
If you are merely about the fringes from the bondage gear, or it permeates ab muscles fiber of the being and that of your partner/lover as well, there is something for everybody. New experiences and apparatuses to elicit wonderful and varied responses in order to increase said experiences are simply around the corner. Elation, even tears (of want and require rather than pain or anguish, since sex should 'never' cause genuine harm) really are a real chance with thoughtful, evocative sex play. Come with us, and we'll explore this winding road leading down into the depths of the sweet intoxicating blending of passion and pain.
Blindfolds and Sensation Play
For many, blindfolds are the quintessential accessory for any D/s playtime. Sensory deprivation coupled with the sensory overload in other areas meshed with the complete and absolute trust needed to be willing to wear you make this a magnificent tool. Imagine, for a moment, as the shade slips over your vision, turning how well you see to blackness. You may move, more inclined though, you can't. Your hearing gets to be more acute as you pick up on every little sound. You may not know what your spouse is doing until she or he does it. The skin tingles in anticipation and at the first touch upon your flesh, whether it be with a knife, help, an ice cube, hot wax, a clothespin or whatever your imaginations can dream up, you react instantly having a sharp consumption of breath. Tactile sensations become poignant and are the sole focus when you're unable to see.
Earplugs These link very, very nicely with blindfolds. For any true sensory deprivation experience, your choices are substantial. On one side, you can choose the cheap foam earplugs found in most grocery or pharmacy. There are industrial variants that are similar, and then there are the hoods that some sex shops sell. Intimidating yet finely crafted, these (usually leather, though other construction choices are available) hoods provide both visual and auditory deprivation. Cutting ties with other senses besides sight serves only to heighten and prolong the ability.
Restraints From silk scarves to saran wrap to wrist/ankle cuffs or industrial strength bungee cord, when you need to immobilize your spouse, there are numerous options, based on what you want to do and how comfortable your spouse is with that one kink. Many ankle/wrist cuffs have metal D rings attached with which you can affix your binder of preference. Ultimately, the goal of restraint is control. Direct your partner's sensations, which often lead to further enjoyment for of you. From orgasm control to the most basic not enough simply being in a position to touch himself or herself or you, tying your lover up such as an erotic Christmas gift can be quite a great deal of fun. As with every aspect of this type of fun, safety factors are key. You have to be sure never to cut off blood flow, and in the situation of saran wrap, your body loses its capability to breathe and release heat, so you've to keep your partner cool. Once you remove it, the opposite will be true, so have a robe or blanket handy.
Furthermore modest set of physical options (modest, because there are numerous options besides these that you can experiment with to find out what you like), you can find scenarios and concepts, which can further heighten the pleasure and joy both sides potentially experience. From conditioning - or honing your lover to get off by doing or wearing a certain thing (during public) to dirty talking, to roleplay, your choices are as boundless as the imagination. If you play it safe, and ensure your partner knows that you love him or her and will do right by them long after the welts and transient pains of want have faded, there is no end as to the you can do.
