Toys, Tricks and Tears: Getting the Most Out of Your BDSM Play7078649
Regardless if you are merely around the fringes from the kinky bondage toys, or it permeates the fiber of your being and that of your partner/lover as well, there is something for everyone. New experiences and apparatuses to elicit wonderful and varied responses to heighten said experiences are only around the corner. Elation, even tears (of want and desire rather than pain or anguish, since sex should 'never' cause genuine harm) really are a real chance with thoughtful, evocative sex play. Have us, and we'll explore this winding road leading on to the depths of the sweet intoxicating blending of passion and pain.
Blindfolds and Sensation Play
For some, blindfolds are the quintessential accessory for any D/s playtime. Sensory deprivation coupled with the sensory overload in the areas meshed with the complete and absolute trust would have to be willing to wear you make this a magnificent tool. Imagine, as it were, as the shade slips over the eyes, turning your vision to blackness. You could move, more inclined though, you can't. Your hearing becomes more acute as you pick up on every little sound. You may not know what your companion is doing until they does it. Your skin layer tingles in anticipation at the first touch upon your flesh, whether it be with a knife, a hand, an ice cube, hot wax, a clothespin or whatever your imaginations can dream up, you react instantly using a sharp consumption of breath. Tactile sensations become poignant and therefore are the sole focus when you're unable to see.
Earplugs These link very, very nicely with blindfolds. To get a true sensory deprivation experience, your options are substantial. On the one hand, you can go with the cheap memory foam earplugs seen in most grocery or pharmacy. There are industrial variants which can be similar, and there are also the hoods that some sex shops sell. Intimidating yet finely crafted, these (usually leather, though other construction options are available) hoods provide both visual and auditory deprivation. Cutting ties with other senses besides sight serves only to heighten and prolong the ability.
Restraints From silk scarves to saran wrap to wrist/ankle cuffs or industrial strength bungee cord, when you wish to immobilize your spouse, there are numerous options, depending on what you want to do and how comfortable your spouse is with that specific kink. Many ankle/wrist cuffs include metal D rings attached with which you can affix your binder of choice. Ultimately, the objective of restraint is control. Direct your partner's sensations, which lead to further enjoyment for both of you. From orgasm control for the most basic lack of simply being able to touch herself or himself or you, tying your partner up as an erotic Christmas gift could be a great deal of fun. Just like any aspect of this kind of fun, safety is key. You've got to be sure to not cut off the circulation of blood, and in the situation of saran wrap, our bodies loses its capability to breathe and release heat, so you've to keep your partner cool. When you remove it, the contrary will be true, and so do have a robe or blanket handy.
Furthermore modest list of physical options (modest, because there are numerous options besides these which you can experiment with to learn what you like), you can find scenarios and concepts, which can further heighten the pleasure and joy both parties potentially experience. From conditioning - or honing your partner to get off by doing or wearing a specific thing (during public) to dirty talking, to roleplay, your alternatives are as boundless as the imagination. Providing you play it safe, and make sure your partner sees that you love her or him and will do right by them long after the welts and transient pains of want have faded, there isn't any end as to the you can do.
