Toys, Tricks and Tears: Having the Most Out of Your BDSM Play613296
Whether you are merely about the fringes of the bondage gear, or it permeates ab muscles fiber of the being understanding that of your partner/lover also, there is something for all. New experiences and apparatuses to elicit wonderful and varied responses in order to increase said experiences are just around the corner. Elation, even tears (of want and desire rather than pain or anguish, since sex should 'never' cause genuine harm) certainly are a real chance with thoughtful, evocative sex play. Include us, and we'll explore this winding road leading down into the depths of this sweet intoxicating blending of passion and pain.
Blindfolds and Sensation Play
For many, blindfolds are the quintessential addition for any D/s playtime. Sensory deprivation along with the sensory overload in the areas meshed with the complete and absolute trust needed to be willing to wear you make this a magnificent tool. Imagine, as it were, as the shade slips over the eyes, turning how well you see to blackness. You could move, more likely though, you cannot. Your hearing gets to be more acute when you pick up on every little sound. You won't know what your companion is doing until she or he does it. The skin tingles in anticipation at the first touch upon your flesh, be it with a knife, support, an ice cube, hot wax, a clothespin or whatever your imaginations can dream up, you react instantly using a sharp use of breath. Tactile sensations become poignant and are the sole focus when you are unable to see.
Earplugs These link very, very nicely with blindfolds. To get a true sensory deprivation experience, your choices are substantial. On the one hand, you can choose the cheap polyurethane foam earplugs found in most grocery or pharmacy. There are industrial variants which can be similar, and then there are the hoods that some sex shops sell. Intimidating yet finely crafted, these (usually leather, though other construction options are available) hoods provide both visual and auditory deprivation. Cutting ties to other senses besides sight serves only to heighten and prolong the ability.
Restraints From silk scarves to saran wrap to wrist/ankle cuffs or industrial strength bungee cord, when you want to immobilize your lover, there are numerous options, according to what you want to do and how comfortable your lover is with that particular kink. Many ankle/wrist cuffs include metal D rings mounted on which you can affix your binder of choice. Ultimately, the objective of restraint is control. Direct your partner's sensations, which lead to further enjoyment both for of you. From orgasm control towards the most basic not enough simply being capable of touch themselves or you, tying your partner up like an erotic Christmas gift can be quite a great deal of fun. Just like any aspect of this kind of fun, aspects key. You've got to be sure to not cut off blood flow, and in the situation of saran wrap, the body loses being able to breathe and release heat, so you've to keep your partner cool. Once you remove it, the opposite will be true, so have a robe or blanket handy.
In addition to this modest set of physical options (modest, since there are numerous options besides these that you can experiment with to find out what you like), there are scenarios and ideas, which can further heighten the pleasure and joy both sides potentially experience. From conditioning - or honing your lover to get off by doing or wearing a certain thing (during public) to dirty talking, to roleplay, your options are as boundless since your imagination. So long as you play it safe, and ensure your partner knows that you love them and will do right by him or her long after the welts and transient pains of want have faded, there isn't any end to what you can do.
