Toys, Tricks and Tears: Having the Most Out of Your BDSM Play7959895
Whether you are merely on the fringes with the kinky bondage toys, or it permeates the very fiber of your being and that of your partner/lover as well, there is something for everybody. New experiences and apparatuses to elicit wonderful and varied responses to heighten said experiences are just around the corner. Elation, even tears (of want and require rather than pain or anguish, since sex should 'never' cause genuine harm) certainly are a real chance with thoughtful, evocative sex play. Come with us, and we'll explore this winding road leading into the depths of the sweet intoxicating blending of passion and pain.
Blindfolds and Sensation Play
For some, blindfolds are the quintessential accessory for any D/s playtime. Sensory deprivation in conjunction with the sensory overload in other areas meshed with the complete and absolute trust would have to be willing to wear you make this a magnificent tool. Imagine, as it were, as the shade slips over the eyes, turning how well you see to blackness. You could move, more inclined though, you can not. Your hearing grows more acute while you pick up on every little sound. You will not know what your spouse is doing until they does it. Your skin tingles in anticipation and also at the first touch upon your flesh, be it with a knife, support, an ice cube, hot wax, a clothespin or whatever your imaginations can dream up, you react instantly with a sharp use of breath. Tactile sensations become poignant and therefore are the sole focus once you are unable to see.
Earplugs These link very, very nicely with blindfolds. To get a true sensory deprivation experience, your choices are substantial. On one side, you can go with the cheap polyurethane foam earplugs seen in most grocery or pharmacy. There are industrial variants that are similar, and there are also the hoods that some sex shops sell. Intimidating yet finely crafted, these (usually leather, though other construction option is available) hoods provide both visual and auditory deprivation. Cutting ties with other senses besides sight serves and then heighten and prolong the experience.
Restraints From silk scarves to saran wrap to wrist/ankle cuffs or industrial strength bungee cord, when you want to immobilize your spouse, there are numerous options, based on what you want to accomplish and how comfortable your lover is with that particular kink. Many ankle/wrist cuffs include metal D rings mounted on which you can affix your binder of choice. Ultimately, the objective of restraint is control. Direct your partner's sensations, which lead to further enjoyment for both of you. From orgasm control for the most basic insufficient simply being able to touch herself or himself or you, tying your spouse up like an erotic Christmas gift can be a great deal of fun. Just like any aspect of this type of fun, safety is key. You must be sure not to cut off blood circulation, and in the situation of saran wrap, our bodies loses its capability to breathe and release heat, so you've got to keep your partner cool. Whenever you remove it, the alternative will be true, and so do a robe or blanket handy.
In addition to this modest set of physical options (modest, because there are numerous options besides these which you can experiment with to find out what you like), you will find scenarios and concepts, which can further heighten the pleasure and joy both sides potentially experience. From conditioning - or honing your partner to get off by doing or wearing a particular thing (even just in public) to dirty talking, to roleplay, your options are as boundless as your imagination. So long as you play it safe, and make sure your partner recognizes that you love her or him and will do right by him or her long after the welts and transient pains of want have faded, there isn't any end as to what you can do.
