Toys, Tricks and Tears: Having the Most Out of Your BDSM Play9198686
Whether you are merely around the fringes with the best bondage, or it permeates the fiber of one's being and that of your partner/lover also, there is something for everybody. New experiences and apparatuses to elicit wonderful and varied responses in order to increase said experiences are simply around the corner. Elation, even tears (of want and need rather than pain or anguish, since sex should 'never' cause genuine harm) certainly are a real chance with thoughtful, evocative sex play. Have us, and we'll explore this winding road leading down into the depths of this sweet intoxicating blending of passion and pain.
Blindfolds and Sensation Play
For a few, blindfolds are the quintessential addition to any D/s playtime. Sensory deprivation coupled with the sensory overload in other locations meshed with the complete and absolute trust would have to be willing to wear you make this a magnificent tool. Imagine, if you will, as the shade slips over your eyes, turning your vision to blackness. You could move, more inclined though, you can't. Your hearing grows more acute when you pick up on every little sound. You may not know what your companion is doing until they does it. Your skin tingles in anticipation and also at the first touch upon your flesh, be it with a knife, help, an ice cube, hot wax, a clothespin or whatever your imaginations can dream up, you react instantly with a sharp use of breath. Tactile sensations become poignant and therefore are the sole focus when you are unable to see.
Earplugs These link very, very nicely with blindfolds. For a true sensory deprivation experience, your alternatives are substantial. On one side, you can opt for the cheap polyurethane foam earplugs found in most grocery or pharmacies. There are industrial variants that are similar, and then there are the hoods that some sex shops sell. Intimidating yet finely crafted, these (usually leather, though other construction choices are available) hoods provide both visual and auditory deprivation. Cutting ties to other senses besides sight serves only to heighten and prolong the experience.
Restraints From silk scarves to saran wrap to wrist/ankle cuffs or industrial strength bungee cord, when you need to immobilize your spouse, there are numerous options, depending on what you want to do and how comfortable your partner is with that one kink. Many ankle/wrist cuffs include metal D rings attached with which you can affix your binder associated with preference. Ultimately, the goal of restraint is control. Direct your partner's sensations, which in turn lead to further enjoyment both for of you. From orgasm control for the most basic insufficient simply being able to touch himself or herself or you, tying your lover up such as an erotic Christmas gift can be a great deal of fun. As with any aspect of this sort of fun, safety factors are key. You must be sure never to cut off the circulation of blood, and in the situation of saran wrap, your body loses its capability to breathe and release heat, so you've got to keep your partner cool. Whenever you remove it, the alternative will be true, and so do a robe or blanket handy.
Additionally modest set of physical options (modest, since there are numerous options besides these which you'll experiment with to discover what you like), there are scenarios and ideas, which can further heighten the pleasure and joy both parties potentially experience. From conditioning - or honing your spouse to get off by doing or wearing a particular thing (even just in public) to dirty talking, to roleplay, your alternatives are as boundless as your imagination. Providing you play it safe, and make sure your partner sees that you love her or him and will do right by them long after the welts and transient pains of want have faded, there isn't any end as to what you can do.
