Toys, Tricks and Tears: Obtaining the Most Out of Your BDSM Play1527320
If you are merely around the fringes from the kinky bondage toys, or it permeates the very fiber of one's being understanding that of your partner/lover also, there is something for everybody. New experiences and apparatuses to elicit wonderful and varied responses to heighten said experiences are only around the corner. Elation, even tears (of want and require rather than pain or anguish, since sex should 'never' cause genuine harm) certainly are a real chance with thoughtful, evocative sex play. Have us, and we'll explore this winding road leading on to the depths of that sweet intoxicating blending of passion and pain.
Blindfolds and Sensation Play
For some, blindfolds are the quintessential addition for any D/s playtime. Sensory deprivation in conjunction with the sensory overload in the areas meshed with the complete and absolute trust needed to be willing to wear one makes this a magnificent tool. Imagine, as it were, as the shade slips over your eyes, turning your vision to blackness. You may move, more likely though, you can't. Your hearing grows more acute while you pick up on every little sound. You will not know what your companion is doing until she or he does it. Your skin layer tingles in anticipation at the first touch upon your flesh, whether it be with a knife, a hand, an ice cube, hot wax, a clothespin or whatever your imaginations can envision, you react instantly using a sharp consumption of breath. Tactile sensations become poignant and therefore are the sole focus once you are unable to see.
Earplugs These link very, very nicely with blindfolds. To get a true sensory deprivation experience, your choices are substantial. On the one hand, you can choose the cheap foam earplugs seen in most grocery or pharmacy. There are industrial variants which are similar, and then there are the hoods that some sex shops sell. Intimidating yet finely crafted, these (usually leather, though other construction choices are available) hoods provide both visual and auditory deprivation. Cutting ties with other senses besides sight serves and then heighten and prolong the ability.
Restraints From silk scarves to saran wrap to wrist/ankle cuffs or industrial strength bungee cord, when you want to immobilize your spouse, there are numerous options, based on what you want to do and how comfortable your lover is with that specific kink. Many ankle/wrist cuffs include metal D rings attached with which you can affix your binder of choice. Ultimately, the objective of restraint is control. Direct your partner's sensations, which in turn lead to further enjoyment for of you. From orgasm control for the most basic lack of simply being able to touch himself or herself or you, tying your partner up like an erotic Christmas gift could be a great deal of fun. Just like any aspect of this kind of fun, safety factors are key. You must be sure not to cut off blood circulation, and in the case of saran wrap, your body loses being able to breathe and release heat, so you've to keep your partner cool. When you remove it, the contrary will be true, so have a robe or blanket handy.
Furthermore modest list of physical options (modest, as there are numerous options besides these that you can experiment with to discover what you like), you will find scenarios and ideas, which can further heighten the pleasure and joy each party potentially experience. From conditioning - or honing your spouse to get off by doing or wearing a particular thing (during public) to dirty talking, to roleplay, your alternatives are as boundless since your imagination. So long as you play it safe, and ensure your partner sees that you love her or him and will do right by her or him long after the welts and transient pains of want have faded, there isn't any end as to the you can do.
