Toys, Tricks and Tears: Obtaining the Most Out of Your BDSM Play4717718
Whether you are merely about the fringes with the kinky bondage toys, or it permeates ab muscles fiber of the being and that of your partner/lover too, there is something for everybody. New experiences and apparatuses to elicit wonderful and varied responses in order to increase said experiences are just around the corner. Elation, even tears (of want and need rather than pain or anguish, since sex should 'never' cause genuine harm) really are a real chance with thoughtful, evocative sex play. Have us, and we'll explore this winding road leading into the depths of this sweet intoxicating blending of passion and pain.
Blindfolds and Sensation Play
For some, blindfolds are the quintessential addition to any D/s playtime. Sensory deprivation in conjunction with the sensory overload in other locations meshed with the complete and absolute trust would have to be willing to wear one makes this a magnificent tool. Imagine, for a moment, as the shade slips over your vision, turning how well you see to blackness. You could move, more likely though, you can't. Your hearing gets to be more acute as you pick up on every little sound. You may not know what your spouse is doing until he or she does it. Your skin layer tingles in anticipation and at the first touch upon your flesh, whether it is with a knife, a hand, an ice cube, hot wax, a clothespin or whatever your imaginations can dream up, you react instantly with a sharp use of breath. Tactile sensations become poignant and are the sole focus once you are unable to see.
Earplugs These link very, very nicely with blindfolds. For any true sensory deprivation experience, your alternatives are substantial. On the other hand, you can go with the cheap memory foam earplugs found in most grocery or pharmacies. There are industrial variants that are similar, there are also the hoods that some sex shops sell. Intimidating yet finely crafted, these (usually leather, though other construction option is available) hoods provide both visual and auditory deprivation. Cutting ties to other senses besides sight serves and then heighten and prolong the knowledge.
Restraints From silk scarves to saran wrap to wrist/ankle cuffs or industrial strength bungee cord, when you wish to immobilize your lover, there are numerous options, based on what you want to accomplish and how comfortable your partner is with that specific kink. Many ankle/wrist cuffs have metal D rings attached with which you can affix your binder of choice. Ultimately, the purpose of restraint is control. Direct your partner's sensations, which lead to further enjoyment for of you. From orgasm control towards the most basic insufficient simply being able to touch themselves or you, tying your partner up like an erotic Christmas gift can be quite a great deal of fun. Just like any aspect of this kind of fun, safety factors are key. You've got to be sure to not cut off blood circulation, and in the situation of saran wrap, our bodies loses its capability to breathe and release heat, so you've to keep your partner cool. Once you remove it, the contrary will be true, and so do have a robe or blanket handy.
In addition to this modest listing of physical options (modest, as there are numerous options besides these which you can experiment with to discover what you like), there are scenarios and concepts, which can further heighten the pleasure and joy both sides potentially experience. From conditioning - or honing your partner to get off by doing or wearing a certain thing (even just in public) to dirty talking, to roleplay, your alternatives are as boundless as the imagination. Providing you play it safe, and ensure your partner sees that you love her or him and will do right by her or him long after the welts and transient pains of want have faded, there is no end as to what you can do.
