Toys, Tricks and Tears: Obtaining the Most Out of Your BDSM Play7920883
Regardless if you are merely about the fringes with the bondage gear, or it permeates the very fiber of your being understanding that of your partner/lover also, there is something for everyone. New experiences and apparatuses to elicit wonderful and varied responses to heighten said experiences are only around the corner. Elation, even tears (of want and need rather than pain or anguish, since sex should 'never' cause genuine harm) certainly are a real chance with thoughtful, evocative sex play. Have us, and we'll explore this winding road leading down into the depths of this sweet intoxicating blending of passion and pain.
Blindfolds and Sensation Play
For a few, blindfolds are the quintessential addition to any D/s playtime. Sensory deprivation coupled with the sensory overload in other areas meshed with the complete and absolute trust needed to be willing to wear one makes this a magnificent tool. Imagine, if you will, as the shade slips over your eyes, turning your vision to blackness. You could move, more inclined though, you can't. Your hearing grows more acute as you pick up on every little sound. You may not know what your lover is doing until she or he does it. The skin tingles in anticipation at the first touch upon your flesh, whether it is with a knife, a hand, an ice cube, hot wax, a clothespin or whatever your imaginations can envision, you react instantly having a sharp use of breath. Tactile sensations become poignant and are the sole focus once you are unable to see.
Earplugs These link very, very nicely with blindfolds. For a true sensory deprivation experience, your alternatives are substantial. On one side, you can choose the cheap polyurethane foam earplugs present in most grocery or pharmacies. There are industrial variants which are similar, and there are also the hoods that some sex shops sell. Intimidating yet finely crafted, these (usually leather, though other construction options are available) hoods provide both visual and auditory deprivation. Cutting ties along with other senses besides sight serves only to heighten and prolong the experience.
Restraints From silk scarves to saran wrap to wrist/ankle cuffs or industrial strength bungee cord, when you wish to immobilize your lover, there are numerous options, depending on what you want to complete and how comfortable your lover is with that specific kink. Many ankle/wrist cuffs come with metal D rings attached to which you can affix your binder associated with preference. Ultimately, the objective of restraint is control. Direct your partner's sensations, which lead to further enjoyment both for of you. From orgasm control towards the most basic not enough simply being capable of touch themselves or you, tying your lover up such as an erotic Christmas gift can be a great deal of fun. As with any aspect of this sort of fun, safety is key. You must be sure to not cut off blood flow, and in the truth of saran wrap, the body loses its ability to breathe and release heat, so you have to keep your partner cool. When you remove it, the alternative will be true, and so do a robe or blanket handy.
Furthermore modest list of physical options (modest, since there are numerous options besides these that you can experiment with to learn what you like), there are scenarios and concepts, which can further heighten the pleasure and joy both sides potentially experience. From conditioning - or honing your partner to get off by doing or wearing a specific thing (even in public) to dirty talking, to roleplay, your choices are as boundless since your imagination. Providing you play it safe, and ensure your partner recognizes that you love her or him and will do right by them long after the welts and transient pains of want have faded, there is no end as to the you can do.
