Toys, Tricks and Tears: Obtaining the Most Out of Your BDSM Play8106917
If you are merely around the fringes with the bondage toys, or it permeates ab muscles fiber of your being and that of your partner/lover as well, there is something for all. New experiences and apparatuses to elicit wonderful and varied responses to heighten said experiences are only around the corner. Elation, even tears (of want and desire rather than pain or anguish, since sex should 'never' cause genuine harm) really are a real chance with thoughtful, evocative sex play. Have us, and we'll explore this winding road leading on to the depths of that sweet intoxicating blending of passion and pain.
Blindfolds and Sensation Play
For a few, blindfolds are the quintessential addition for any D/s playtime. Sensory deprivation along with the sensory overload in the areas meshed with the complete and absolute trust must be willing to wear you make this a magnificent tool. Imagine, as it were, as the shade slips over your eyes, turning your eyesight to blackness. You could move, more inclined though, you cannot. Your hearing grows more acute as you pick up on every little sound. You won't know what your spouse is doing until they does it. Your skin tingles in anticipation and also at the first touch upon your flesh, be it with a knife, support, an ice cube, hot wax, a clothespin or whatever your imaginations can dream up, you react instantly with a sharp intake of breath. Tactile sensations become poignant and are the sole focus when you're unable to see.
Earplugs These link very, very nicely with blindfolds. For a true sensory deprivation experience, your choices are substantial. On one side, you can go with the cheap polyurethane foam earplugs found in most grocery or drug stores. There are industrial variants which are similar, and there are also the hoods that some sex shops sell. Intimidating yet finely crafted, these (usually leather, though other construction options are available) hoods provide both visual and auditory deprivation. Cutting ties with other senses besides sight serves simply to heighten and prolong the knowledge.
Restraints From silk scarves to saran wrap to wrist/ankle cuffs or industrial strength bungee cord, when you need to immobilize your partner, there are numerous options, depending on what you want to do and how comfortable your partner is with that specific kink. Many ankle/wrist cuffs come with metal D rings mounted on which you can affix your binder of preference. Ultimately, the goal of restraint is control. Direct your partner's sensations, which often lead to further enjoyment for both of you. From orgasm control towards the most basic insufficient simply being capable of touch himself or herself or you, tying your lover up as an erotic Christmas gift can be a great deal of fun. As with every aspect of this type of fun, safety factors are key. You've got to be sure to not cut off blood flow, and in the truth of saran wrap, your body loses its capability to breathe and release heat, so you have to keep your partner cool. When you remove it, the opposite will be true, and so do a robe or blanket handy.
Furthermore modest listing of physical options (modest, since there are numerous options besides these that you can experiment with to learn what you like), there are scenarios and ideas, which can further heighten the pleasure and joy each party potentially experience. From conditioning - or honing your spouse to get off by doing or wearing a certain thing (during public) to dirty talking, to roleplay, your choices are as boundless since your imagination. Providing you play it safe, and make sure your partner recognizes that you love him or her and will do right by her or him long after the welts and transient pains of want have faded, there is no end as to the you can do.
