Toys, Tricks and Tears: Getting the Most Out of Your BDSM Play5627682
Whether you are merely around the fringes with the best bondage, or it permeates the very fiber of one's being and that of your partner/lover also, there is something for everyone. New experiences and apparatuses to elicit wonderful and varied responses in order to increase said experiences are simply around the corner. Elation, even tears (of want and require rather than pain or anguish, since sex should 'never' cause genuine harm) are a real chance with thoughtful, evocative sex play. Come with us, and we'll explore this winding road leading on to the depths of this sweet intoxicating blending of passion and pain.
Blindfolds and Sensation Play
For many, blindfolds are the quintessential accessory for any D/s playtime. Sensory deprivation in conjunction with the sensory overload in other areas meshed with the complete and absolute trust would have to be willing to wear one makes this a magnificent tool. Imagine, as it were, as the shade slips over your eyes, turning your eyesight to blackness. Perhaps you can move, much more likely though, you cannot. Your hearing becomes more acute as you pick up on every little sound. You will not know what your lover is doing until he or she does it. The skin tingles in anticipation at the first touch upon your flesh, whether it be with a knife, help, an ice cube, hot wax, a clothespin or whatever your imaginations can envision, you react instantly with a sharp use of breath. Tactile sensations become poignant and therefore are the sole focus when you are unable to see.
Earplugs These link very, very nicely with blindfolds. For a true sensory deprivation experience, your choices are substantial. On the other hand, you can go with the cheap foam earplugs found in most grocery or pharmacies. There are industrial variants which are similar, and there are also the hoods that some sex shops sell. Intimidating yet finely crafted, these (usually leather, though other construction option is available) hoods provide both visual and auditory deprivation. Cutting ties along with other senses besides sight serves and then heighten and prolong the knowledge.
Restraints From silk scarves to saran wrap to wrist/ankle cuffs or industrial strength bungee cord, when you need to immobilize your lover, there are numerous options, according to what you want to complete and how comfortable your spouse is with that particular kink. Many ankle/wrist cuffs have metal D rings mounted on which you can affix your binder associated with preference. Ultimately, the purpose of restraint is control. Direct your partner's sensations, which in turn lead to further enjoyment for of you. From orgasm control towards the most basic lack of simply being capable of touch himself or herself or you, tying your spouse up as an erotic Christmas gift can be quite a great deal of fun. As with every aspect of this type of fun, safety is key. You've got to be sure not to cut off the circulation of blood, and in the situation of saran wrap, the body loses being able to breathe and release heat, so you've got to keep your partner cool. When you remove it, the alternative will be true, so have a robe or blanket handy.
Furthermore modest list of physical options (modest, because there are numerous options besides these which you can experiment with to learn what you like), you will find scenarios and ideas, which can further heighten the pleasure and joy both sides potentially experience. From conditioning - or honing your lover to get off by doing or wearing a certain thing (even just in public) to dirty talking, to roleplay, your options are as boundless as the imagination. If you play it safe, and make sure your partner sees that you love her or him and will do right by her or him long after the welts and transient pains of want have faded, there's no end as to the you can do.
