Toys, Tricks and Tears: Getting the Most Out of Your BDSM Play5649527
Regardless if you are merely on the fringes with the bondage gear, or it permeates the fiber of your being which of your partner/lover also, there is something for everybody. New experiences and apparatuses to elicit wonderful and varied responses to heighten said experiences are just around the corner. Elation, even tears (of want and desire rather than pain or anguish, since sex should 'never' cause genuine harm) certainly are a real chance with thoughtful, evocative sex play. Have us, and we'll explore this winding road leading into the depths of this sweet intoxicating blending of passion and pain.
Blindfolds and Sensation Play
For a few, blindfolds are the quintessential addition to any D/s playtime. Sensory deprivation along with the sensory overload in other locations meshed with the complete and absolute trust would have to be willing to wear one makes this a magnificent tool. Imagine, if you will, as the shade slips over your eyes, turning how well you see to blackness. You may move, more inclined though, you cannot. Your hearing gets to be more acute as you pick up on every little sound. You won't know what your companion is doing until they does it. The skin tingles in anticipation and also at the first touch upon your flesh, be it with a knife, help, an ice cube, hot wax, a clothespin or whatever your imaginations can envision, you react instantly using a sharp use of breath. Tactile sensations become poignant and are the sole focus once you are unable to see.
Earplugs These link very, very nicely with blindfolds. For any true sensory deprivation experience, your options are substantial. On the one hand, you can choose the cheap memory foam earplugs found in most grocery or drug stores. There are industrial variants which are similar, and then there are the hoods that some sex shops sell. Intimidating yet finely crafted, these (usually leather, though other construction options are available) hoods provide both visual and auditory deprivation. Cutting ties to other senses besides sight serves simply to heighten and prolong the knowledge.
Restraints From silk scarves to saran wrap to wrist/ankle cuffs or industrial strength bungee cord, when you wish to immobilize your spouse, there are numerous options, depending on what you want to do and how comfortable your spouse is with that specific kink. Many ankle/wrist cuffs include metal D rings attached to which you can affix your binder of preference. Ultimately, the goal of restraint is control. Direct your partner's sensations, which often lead to further enjoyment for both of you. From orgasm control towards the most basic lack of simply being able to touch himself or herself or you, tying your partner up like an erotic Christmas gift could be a great deal of fun. As with any aspect of this kind of fun, safety is key. You have to be sure not to cut off blood flow, and in the situation of saran wrap, your body loses its capability to breathe and release heat, so you have to keep your partner cool. Once you remove it, the opposite will be true, and so do a robe or blanket handy.
In addition to this modest set of physical options (modest, as there are numerous options besides these which you'll experiment with to find out what you like), you will find scenarios and ideas, which can further heighten the pleasure and joy both parties potentially experience. From conditioning - or honing your spouse to get off by doing or wearing a specific thing (during public) to dirty talking, to roleplay, your choices are as boundless as your imagination. Providing you play it safe, and be sure your partner sees that you love them and will do right by him or her long after the welts and transient pains of want have faded, there's no end as to what you can do.
