Toys, Tricks and Tears: Getting the Most Out of Your BDSM Play7481620
If you are merely around the fringes from the kinky bondage toys, or it permeates the very fiber of your being understanding that of your partner/lover too, there is something for all. New experiences and apparatuses to elicit wonderful and varied responses to heighten said experiences are simply around the corner. Elation, even tears (of want and need rather than pain or anguish, since sex should 'never' cause genuine harm) really are a real chance with thoughtful, evocative sex play. Have us, and we'll explore this winding road leading down into the depths of this sweet intoxicating blending of passion and pain.
Blindfolds and Sensation Play
For a few, blindfolds are the quintessential accessory for any D/s playtime. Sensory deprivation along with the sensory overload in other areas meshed with the complete and absolute trust would have to be willing to wear you make this a magnificent tool. Imagine, as it were, as the shade slips over your vision, turning your vision to blackness. Perhaps you can move, more inclined though, you can't. Your hearing grows more acute as you pick up on every little sound. You will not know what your companion is doing until she or he does it. The skin tingles in anticipation at the first touch upon your flesh, whether it be with a knife, help, an ice cube, hot wax, a clothespin or whatever your imaginations can envision, you react instantly having a sharp consumption of breath. Tactile sensations become poignant and so are the sole focus when you are unable to see.
Earplugs These link very, very nicely with blindfolds. For a true sensory deprivation experience, your options are substantial. On one side, you can opt for the cheap memory foam earplugs seen in most grocery or pharmacy. There are industrial variants which can be similar, and then there are the hoods that some sex shops sell. Intimidating yet finely crafted, these (usually leather, though other construction choices are available) hoods provide both visual and auditory deprivation. Cutting ties to other senses besides sight serves and then heighten and prolong the experience.
Restraints From silk scarves to saran wrap to wrist/ankle cuffs or industrial strength bungee cord, when you wish to immobilize your lover, there are numerous options, based on what you want to do and how comfortable your spouse is with that specific kink. Many ankle/wrist cuffs include metal D rings attached with which you can affix your binder of preference. Ultimately, the goal of restraint is control. Direct your partner's sensations, which in turn lead to further enjoyment both for of you. From orgasm control to the most basic lack of simply being in a position to touch himself or herself or you, tying your partner up such as an erotic Christmas gift can be a great deal of fun. Just like any aspect of this sort of fun, aspects key. You have to be sure not to cut off blood flow, and in the truth of saran wrap, our bodies loses being able to breathe and release heat, so you've got to keep your partner cool. When you remove it, the contrary will be true, so have a robe or blanket handy.
Additionally modest list of physical options (modest, because there are numerous options besides these which you can experiment with to find out what you like), you will find scenarios and concepts, which can further heighten the pleasure and joy each party potentially experience. From conditioning - or honing your lover to get off by doing or wearing a specific thing (even just in public) to dirty talking, to roleplay, your choices are as boundless as the imagination. Providing you play it safe, and make sure your partner sees that you love her or him and will do right by them long after the welts and transient pains of want have faded, there isn't any end as to what you can do.
