Toys, Tricks and Tears: Getting the Most Out of Your BDSM Play9239177
Whether you are merely on the fringes with the kinky bondage toys, or it permeates the fiber of your being which of your partner/lover too, there is something for all. New experiences and apparatuses to elicit wonderful and varied responses to heighten said experiences are simply around the corner. Elation, even tears (of want and need rather than pain or anguish, since sex should 'never' cause genuine harm) certainly are a real chance with thoughtful, evocative sex play. Come with us, and we'll explore this winding road leading down into the depths of this sweet intoxicating blending of passion and pain.
Blindfolds and Sensation Play
For a few, blindfolds are the quintessential accessory for any D/s playtime. Sensory deprivation along with the sensory overload in other areas meshed with the complete and absolute trust must be willing to wear one makes this a magnificent tool. Imagine, as it were, as the shade slips over the eyes, turning your vision to blackness. Perhaps you can move, much more likely though, you can not. Your hearing grows more acute while you pick up on every little sound. You will not know what your companion is doing until they does it. The skin tingles in anticipation and at the first touch upon your flesh, be it with a knife, help, an ice cube, hot wax, a clothespin or whatever your imaginations can envision, you react instantly with a sharp use of breath. Tactile sensations become poignant and are the sole focus once you are unable to see.
Earplugs These link very, very nicely with blindfolds. To get a true sensory deprivation experience, your alternatives are substantial. On one side, you can choose the cheap memory foam earplugs seen in most grocery or pharmacies. There are industrial variants which are similar, and then there are the hoods that some sex shops sell. Intimidating yet finely crafted, these (usually leather, though other construction choices are available) hoods provide both visual and auditory deprivation. Cutting ties along with other senses besides sight serves only to heighten and prolong the ability.
Restraints From silk scarves to saran wrap to wrist/ankle cuffs or industrial strength bungee cord, when you need to immobilize your lover, there are numerous options, depending on what you want to do and how comfortable your partner is with that specific kink. Many ankle/wrist cuffs include metal D rings attached with which you can affix your binder of preference. Ultimately, the objective of restraint is control. Direct your partner's sensations, which in turn lead to further enjoyment for of you. From orgasm control to the most basic lack of simply being able to touch herself or himself or you, tying your partner up like an erotic Christmas gift can be quite a great deal of fun. As with every aspect of this sort of fun, safety factors are key. You have to be sure not to cut off blood flow, and in the case of saran wrap, our bodies loses its ability to breathe and release heat, so you've to keep your partner cool. When you remove it, the opposite will be true, and so do a robe or blanket handy.
Additionally modest set of physical options (modest, because there are numerous options besides these that you can experiment with to discover what you like), you will find scenarios and concepts, which can further heighten the pleasure and joy both parties potentially experience. From conditioning - or honing your lover to get off by doing or wearing a particular thing (even in public) to dirty talking, to roleplay, your options are as boundless as the imagination. If you play it safe, and be sure your partner sees that you love her or him and will do right by her or him long after the welts and transient pains of want have faded, there's no end to what you can do.
