Toys, Tricks and Tears: Getting the Most Out of Your BDSM Play9977293
Whether you are merely on the fringes with the kinky bondage toys, or it permeates the very fiber of the being and that of your partner/lover also, there is something for everybody. New experiences and apparatuses to elicit wonderful and varied responses in order to increase said experiences are simply around the corner. Elation, even tears (of want and need rather than pain or anguish, since sex should 'never' cause genuine harm) are a real chance with thoughtful, evocative sex play. Come with us, and we'll explore this winding road leading into the depths of this sweet intoxicating blending of passion and pain.
Blindfolds and Sensation Play
For some, blindfolds are the quintessential addition for any D/s playtime. Sensory deprivation coupled with the sensory overload in other locations meshed with the complete and absolute trust must be willing to wear one makes this a magnificent tool. Imagine, as it were, as the shade slips over your vision, turning your eyesight to blackness. Perhaps you can move, more likely though, you can not. Your hearing grows more acute when you pick up on every little sound. You may not know what your companion is doing until they does it. The skin tingles in anticipation and at the first touch upon your flesh, be it with a knife, a hand, an ice cube, hot wax, a clothespin or whatever your imaginations can dream up, you react instantly with a sharp consumption of breath. Tactile sensations become poignant and therefore are the sole focus when you are unable to see.
Earplugs These link very, very nicely with blindfolds. For a true sensory deprivation experience, your alternatives are substantial. On the one hand, you can go with the cheap memory foam earplugs seen in most grocery or pharmacy. There are industrial variants which can be similar, and then there are the hoods that some sex shops sell. Intimidating yet finely crafted, these (usually leather, though other construction options are available) hoods provide both visual and auditory deprivation. Cutting ties with other senses besides sight serves and then heighten and prolong the knowledge.
Restraints From silk scarves to saran wrap to wrist/ankle cuffs or industrial strength bungee cord, when you want to immobilize your lover, there are numerous options, based on what you want to complete and how comfortable your partner is with that particular kink. Many ankle/wrist cuffs include metal D rings attached with which you can affix your binder associated with preference. Ultimately, the purpose of restraint is control. Direct your partner's sensations, which in turn lead to further enjoyment both for of you. From orgasm control for the most basic not enough simply being in a position to touch themselves or you, tying your spouse up as an erotic Christmas gift could be a great deal of fun. As with any aspect of this sort of fun, aspects key. You have to be sure not to cut off blood flow, and in the truth of saran wrap, your body loses its ability to breathe and release heat, so you've got to keep your partner cool. Once you remove it, the alternative will be true, and so do have a robe or blanket handy.
Additionally modest set of physical options (modest, because there are numerous options besides these which you'll experiment with to learn what you like), you can find scenarios and concepts, which can further heighten the pleasure and joy both sides potentially experience. From conditioning - or honing your partner to get off by doing or wearing a particular thing (even just in public) to dirty talking, to roleplay, your alternatives are as boundless since your imagination. So long as you play it safe, and ensure your partner sees that you love him or her and will do right by her or him long after the welts and transient pains of want have faded, there is no end as to the you can do.
